how can i make myself *not* care about my boyfriend not really talking to me? my last relationship ended because im too needy

yesteray, i asked him for communications and attention because it would cheer me up, and hes barely texted me at all

i dont wanna seem crazy, we will see eachother tomorrow, its just, im the type of person who needs someone to talk to throughout the day

Hello there! I don't believe you are in any way crazy or insensitive in your circumstances! The type of person you are with your own love language and needs is something that shouldn't be seen as a problem. At the same time, your boyfriend's actions aren't exactly the problem here either. I know I have no right to judge your current relationship, but as I see it, both of you have incompatible personalities/needs for one another. Although you may be dependant on partner conversational interaction, he might be the exact opposite and enjoy having a more quiet relationship. In the end, neither of you should change completely for each other, that wouldn't do anything except worsen the situation along with your owns' happiness. The two options I see are to either break up the relationship now, or discuss this problem with each other and find a sort of compromise to work with each other and suffice each other's wants and needs. That's at least what I would recommend to do. I hope you have a good day!

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You're not the problem in these relationships, there's nothing wrong with the things you asked for and they should be a basic part of a relationship. If your significant other can't respect your wishes they aren't treating you with the respect you deserve. As Sephtis said, you're not crazy or insensitive.