Well you see I'm your avarege Joe,with the little exception that I'm a little shy and that have made it difficult for me to have a girlfriend or boyfriend (I'm bisexual by the way)and I was wondering if I should just start my sex life, I mean I'm already 22 and most of my friends have already started theirs, so should I also start mine, go to a club o use an app and hook up with someone?
what do you guys think?

Personally that's not the safest way to go about it, and usually these things take time to happen, maybe its not right for you yet.
I think you should like, try to open yourself to talk with more people 1st and try to get someone from there instead. but hey, this is an asian's point of view :v

In the end its up to you to pick, but whatever you pick, just remember to be safe, and don't fall for those fake people that are around everywhere, and take care yourself =3

doing something just becuase you could find a sexpartner there. If you do something just with the intetnion of finding a girl/boy, even if you feel uncomfortable, it will come across as forced and you would most likely find people who enjoy that activity and desperatly need a partner, but won't fit your personality. It happende to me so... please don't force youself to do stuff you don't like. Just keep doing the things you enjoy doing but try to talk to people a little more. And don't forget to look out for fakers and bitches ;)

You shouldn't do it just because of peer pressure. It isn't that important after all. I personally wouldn't find someone just for sex, without familiarising with them. You don't know anything about those strangers, if they have STDs, if they clean themselves properly, or if you would hate their personalities.

It is completely fine to try to find love on dating sites/apps. Give it a go, if you wish. Meet them, go on a date. Familarise with them, and then engage in sexual activities. Maybe you find a great partner, not just a one night plaything.

PEER PRESSURE

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Look.... Do what feels right for you.... Follow your own path.... Don't rush into things you are not ready for.... Be mature about things.... And be yourself.... Sex is not a competition.... Sex is something really big for the soul.... There's no take backs....

I lost my virginity at 19 and I regret it. I should have waited more. It kills me everyday when I think about it. But what's done is done.

There's two types of Sex.... 1- Sex: no more then physical satisfaction .... 2- Love making: deep soul connectivity making 2 souls into one....

Ps: make the right choice for yourself.

It may seem hypocritical of me to be advising you (as the nature of this entire section is peer pressure...), but it seems like a god idea to hold off.
People are like duck tape, If they stick to one thing, they tend to stay there for a very long time. If they stick to many different things, they will eventually lose their ability to stick.
In other words, the flighty relationship that you are seeking will only lead to trouble down the road. I advise against it, and would rather advise you to find someone that you an commit to for the rest of your life.

Be yourself. What do you really want in this? what would you like to get from starting it? Once you do it, you can't turn back.

>>6 WTF is with those ellipses?

Well,just marry someone and have sex with her. Sex feel better when there is love.

>>9
NZ!! I don't usually see you on the Personal Board. Visiting neighbourhoods?

Same boat here. Still trying to find the line between what is safe and what would make me happy. I suggest joining a small club so you can get to know a group of people pretty well.
But yeah, you shouldn't just try any method to start a sex life. There is a lot that could go wrong, and if have a bad start it will only get worse.

>>11 Nah, revisiting my roots I guess? I used to post here, Lit and Random a lot.

Now I retreated only to Ran, I'm thinking maybe I should come back to the others?

Watch some porn so you have some idea before you just jump into the sex

if you look at it from the same perspective as talking a walk outside it all really comes down to what you want to do and when you want to do it. People make big deals about virginity and one night stands but if you feel like it in the moment go for it. Dont plan ahead too much, and dont push yourself because you feel like its something someone your age should be into. Your own comfort is more important :)

if youre going to watch porn just remember that it is all acting and visuals. those people tend to have very similar body types and features. also as a girl who had to deal with a man who got all his moves from watching bad actors its not that nice on the receiving end. Its better to just look up tips on what feels good from a female/male perspective.

Hope this helps