Yeah, the actions describe in OP's question are bad, But in of itself is not the worst thing, i think they are factors that can lead to the worse thing, and that's the abused mental state of the person. mental abuse, just like
>>10. It's the mental state of the individual. Rape may be only a one time thing and it may never happen again, but it's the mental state that the person is in. Because there are rape victims or bully victims who treat that as just a thing in the past. It's the mental state of people's minds which can be affected for a long amount of time. It's that invisible thing that none talk about. Deppression, guilt, Mental abuse/ trauma, and mental disorders that are worse, because those tend to be longlasting. Where as rape and bullying are only things that happen in incidences (although these could be factors that lead to certain people's mental states).