hey I need advice. I am taking some really hard classes and my dad screams at yells at me for not doing good. he yells to the point where i dont ever want to see his face again. I want to run away but cant. it gets worse cause he is an achaholic and blames more stuff on me and i think he might do weed. please help me

My dad's kinda like that to (but he doesn't drink too much) I just try to ignore him when I can that probably doesn't help much but

yeah it used to work but he is getting worse i cant ignore it...

alcoholism is not okay, now im not saying all alcohol is bad, but when a person loses their ability to say to themselves, that they had enough; can ruin relationships and lives, depending on how old you are, if you're young enough for children's aid, and have folks who can sign on to be guardians up until your father cleans up would be a good start.
if that isnt an option, and you have relatives living close by, throw an intervention but have someone present who could control and diffuse a tense situation though, i've had to go through a very similar situation, and it is very upsetting.
at the very worst, you may need to leave, running away may seem like an impossibility, but it is always a viable option, think of it as a strategic retreat. never run away to strangers, just hide out at an aunt/uncle/grandparent or a friend from school and insist they help you get the help your dad needs.

i went through so many torturous years with an alcoholic, sad part was her mental state also suffered, her side of the family has a genetic tendency towards schizophrenia, so drinking quickly turned her to violence.
it is not okay to live or grow up in these situations, it is okay to forgive a person for the actions alcoholism brings, but only forgive after they've tried seeking help,.

if you need anymore information or have questions please email me; dusk46.dollars@gmail.com

Well if you catch him doing weed than I'm sure you could probably report it and get relocated to another family member or something

Reisuke-kun, this is not a place for your stupidity. im sure you've had a good life, besides your apparent 'addiction' to 'licking ducks'. go troll somewhere else you self-possessed pompous narcissist, or offer some fucking advice, 'doing weed' is not grounds enough for a relocation.
retardation however can land you in a home,i hope you're smart reisuke.

/sage

really that's not enough to get someone relocated?

1. theres no recorded arguments or proven cases where 'doing weed' has given courts power to relocate kids, not unless there are other reasons. i.e other drugs present, behavior issues, as well as safety issues.
2. you're apparent knowledge of these things are so lacking its figuratively giving me an aneurysm.
3. i am aware that i have no right to tell others what to do. that you'll willfully ignore me in this next point, and that i am not a mod, admin, etc.

4. USE BOARD ETIQUETTE, COMMON FUCKING SENSE< AND START SAGEING YOUR BS POSTS, there are people who genuinely use this board as a place for help, its anonymity is a safety net.
you however i suspect is using it for your entertainment [thats fine too] however there are section you should limit your self too, now if its a personal post that is blatantly meant to fuck around in, do so, but for the love of god, take your self to random if you wanna troll.
ps if you still haven't read th f.a.q, do it , to sage, use the toggle button above the text box where it SAYS SAGE:

/sage to let 'em know you did, or for the fun of it.
i hope to god i don't run into you in real life. i have a feeling i'd be pouring acid down your throat.

>>8 You might not want to put /sage at the bottom. A mod could see it, and permesage the thread by accident.

OP, I think that the best thing that you can do is concentrate on your schoolwork. I live under similar circumstances; my parents aren't alcoholics, but almost the same. My relationship with my mother specifically has soured to the point that the second I go off to college, I might not come home ever again. I take refuge in my schoolwork; good grades equal good college opportunities equal escape from hell. I know it sounds crazy, but even that small shred of hope that I can find a way out of my family gives me the strength to move through to the next day. It might not be the ideal option, but it works. I've tried to fix our relationship, but at this point, it's too broken, and I think even my mom sees that. I've been looking into out of state colleges, possibly abroad, all so that I can escape.

If you have the opportunity, if he's not too far gone, you need to help him. Try to look online for tips about how to help an alcoholic, or if he goes too far, contact a helpline, and they'll help him rehabilitate. I wish you the best of luck!

Thank you guys for the help.