Im a very social Awkward kid. I will make like maybe 1 or 2 friends, and i will become very emotionally attached to them. I know its bad but i really dont know what to do anymore, i dont want the person to think im annoying and stuff...
I know exactly how you feel. I rarely keep in touch with my friends because I don't want to seem too clingy. When you feel alone, everything start seeming miserable. Anyways, people are actually more understanding then we give them credit for. Try being more open about what you're going through with the friends you already have and maybe join some kind of a club or chat with people online. If you don't dare to interact with people because you're constantly worried about making a bad impression, try shutting off your mind. That is, tell yourself "I've got to do this" and just do it, without thinking. That first step when talking to people is always the hardest but it gets easier. I hope this helps somewhat. You're not alone in this.
I'm no expert but here is my advice - tell youself you don't need anyone (don't become all arrogant though XD just more independent). Maybe that way your emotional attachment issue will slightly improve? Personally I actually think you should just do whatever you want and if those people back away then I guess they are just 'friends to hang out with' not really the true friend kind.
For me I just admit that I do need people, but I don't need them all the time. Being able to be by myself is a good thing. I make a lot of superficial friends, and I have to say I'd rather have just 1 or 2 really good friends. Be yourself without being to overbearing and you will do fine :) Confidence is key and I believe in you.
Sometimes you don't even need friends, just a wide network, a passing hello once in a while.
Physical networking is a funny hobby in itself. It's not that you're using the other person, you're just benefiting each other that's all.
But then again my social needs are different to yours. But during my primary/early secondary years I thought friends were a necessity. Then I realised that I didn't know who I truly was anymore (I'm weak that way anyway pfft). I've only got 1 good friend. We don't ask for anything more but to be each other's company.
8 Name: Dark Rose : 2016-04-07 07:38 ID:TLpiI4T4 [Del]
I don't have many friends ether but even if you have 200 or 1 friends. that doesn't mean you a loser or weird. but the thing is you don't just have 1 or 2 friends you have many more. Right here with the Dollars!
be urself, yea if your do this, you get treadened like shit, may try to talk about wat time it is or the way is a good start to train, overcome your fear and talk with strangers they dont know you and you either its more simple, in school its a other thig you need to do a good frist impressÃon (litteraly your over confident, talk with anyone like theres no tomorrow) or your shy and be an outcast or whatever its called , getting bag into a good shape is RLY DIFFICULT i see it myself have moments i try and not try doesnt help you need to get social skills with others first thats why i mentioned strangers , or yea if thats difficult for you call a friend/ compan and talk with him freely or your family members.. i knwo its hard but doable i go through the same sh it right now like you and my situation is + and - depends on your mood ah mood btw , it can help to push you hear crazy music and step up, be exited, or run around if your on the way to something and etc... getting with a good mood to somethign rly helps anyways i wish your the best luck and a great day
>>9 I get your're trying to helpful, but please work on your grammar. I can't read half the shit you said.
11 Name: Dark Rose : 2016-04-08 08:36 ID:TLpiI4T4 [Del]
People call me weird all the time so if you need some help dealing with it just email me. My email is DarkRoseDollars@gmail.com. Make sure that you put that you Ann from the Dollars or I might not answer you. I think we should be friends!
