That's like asking if it's wrong to love cats.

>>2 ... Define "love"

Oh and >>1, my two cents would be wait two years and you can fuck around as much as you want. Keep it in your pants before then.

What's wrong is that it is not normal to have a serious relationship to a person who is far older than you. If you really love each other, he must wait you to finish your studies. I'm not saying having a relationship is not essential in you, or talking generally,we human beings. I recommend you to focus primary in your basic needs like education. 16 years old? You are that young? If he really loves you, then he can wait. That's all and goodluck . If you have following question/s, then reply to my comment. Have a great day.

I'm sorry but the "loving cats" thing made me lose my shit since he/she is named Neko. xD

But in all seriousness if you really like them than I say you wait till you turn 18, that way there aren't any problems and you two can go on your merry way and be happy.

>>3
A healthy obsession.

Anyway... I'd like to amend my comment by mentioning the taboo is mostly caused by the fact that people assume there's a reason he's not dating someone his age. No one likes seeing a young girl be used or manipulated.

I'm not making claims about your relationship as much as I am about how others may look at it.

Pretend I'm the boyfriend. My thought: "what if it's just a spur in the moment and she regrets it when she enters college"
Now pretend I'm the parents: "you're 16! Date someone your age!"
If it's love, it prevails, if not, splinters.

>>7 Wow, that's a pretty solid plan. xD

>>12
Ah I thought you were the girlfriend.
Anyways, as someone who gave up getting society's consents for things a long time ago, let me ask: how important is it for you to be acknowledged by someone other than your lover?
Because marrying someone with more than 20 years gap in age is frowned upon in Europe, but very normal in India or Africa.
In the end it's all superficial (at least to me).

Exactly! Then what's the confusion?
Also, if you're worried about that area, I'd suggest you get her parents to give her the sex ed which is nonexistent at schools.

>>17
You're inviting wolfie with that last bit.

Might I ask how long you've been together?

well you would have to consider your state laws and find out what is the age to have a legal relationship. that's what I think at least.

Well...

As long as you are ware of the consequences no it is not. But society won't accept it and laws may forbid it, you may find each other in court. Try to keep it secretive at least, but no I don't see how there could be a problem with it.