This happens a lot with me , i date girls but the relationships are too short , i broke them up cause i get bored and start loosing interest from them ,
due to my harem building personality ...i don't know ,i fall in love but when i see other girls missing me there's a sudden ache in my heart .. so i preferred being single and get loved by many girls but now i have gf .. it's been 7 months that we are dating ,same as before am loosing interest from her i would like to break up but she can't take it probably she will end her life up and i will get into trouble but more than that am trap in the urge of getting love from other girls in fact that's the problem i cant run from
~ ANY SUGGESTIONS ?

try to get closer to her, like , do more stuff together i think that would help.

>>2 thankyou ...but i tried it and it didn't work in the past :/

>>1 wow, 7 months. Hmmm... maybe you should, i dunno, become an fbi agent yourself?? Think of things you don't know about her. Think of her real smile, what made that happen? Think of what good reason you have for loving her. How did the two of you get together in the first place. What made the relationship last long? (The fear of her committing suicide. I forgot. -_-) But this is all the things I could think of. Good luck.

>>4 thankyou

>>5 You're welcome. :D

I don't knw if this is still an issue for since it's been a while since you posted this. I think that >>4 is good advice, but keeo in mind that if you have to force it, maybe it has just no future and will hurt both of you in the end. Of couse with her possibly comitting suicide it's a tricky and serious situation, so breaking up is not the safest option. But if you talk to her and ensure her that you will stay a good friend who she can always talk to, it won't hit her as hard and she can get over it. But it's a risk of course

sometimes after a while its common to loose interest in a gf bf or even friend. I think if you let her down in the right way or led her to new possibilities, it wouldnt be so bad. but i think after you end it, you should become really good friends with her.

but if you dont want to end it, you could try and do a LOT MORE STUFF WITH HER. Like going to the movies, cuddling, golf, netflix and shiz like that.

First off, take "I fall in love" and shove it up your ass. Those words are just as meaningful as shit now, because people (you included) are tossing it around like you have a clue what it actually is. Now, with that off my chest, the thing is, you probably aren't interested in the girls, you are interested in the feeling of having something new, and different. In the end, an effect called "normalizing" which is where something that was once new, interesting, entertaining, or fun gets a bit old, and regular, and common. Thus you hold it at a lesser value. That's why after a while with someone, you get bored of it, and look for something different... For example, you lose interest in your current girlfriend, and then you turn to past, or new gf's for a change of pace, or just whatever change in general.

When it comes down to it, you don't love any of them, or you would actually feel committed to them. You just don't commit to them, you are just enjoying what they have to give you until it gets boring... Sounds cruel, immoral, whatever you want to call it, but that's pretty much the truth

Addition to my last topic, that's also the reason for "phases" in dating. People go through different phases, because they are tired of "that type" of person, and want a "new type" of person to see if they are better for you.

If your girlfriend is threatening suicide, best option is to simply get her help, tell someone, and not get any deeper into the relationship because that would only get your deeper into the trouble, and make her even more clingy. Seriously, just get her help, and then end your relationship. People like that are simply a danger to themselves, and potentially a danger to you

Truth:
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Kudos, Hidden! I agree with your statements.

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^ I agree with all of that.

just stay single, your not ready for a relationship.