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FRİEND İSSUES (5)

1 Name: kinuha : 2015-06-14 15:16 ID:FCcSd+NI [Del]

My best friend and ı got into separate classes and she started getting new friends while ı didnt became friend with anyone 1 year went like this ı would sit alone in class, read ,nobody would talk to me .Me an my bestfriend still talked but it was not same because she is in different class we found nothing to talk about and it got awkard then I become friend with two girl M and D they were friend before ı befriended them ı got along with them really good (m and d were friend for 3 years ) now 2 years passed and ı consider them as my bestfriends but recently they started to act different they protect each other so much and talk each other ı feel like they push me away . No ı dont feel like they ARE pushing me away ı dont know what to do.

2 Name: kuro-inu : 2015-06-14 16:31 ID:o1y0tM7M [Del]

friends will always come and go-- there's a lot of fish in the sea and i know that you'll find your true best friend soon (´∀`)

3 Name: ShinAttha : 2015-06-15 17:46 ID:D0cagRGv [Del]

>>2 optimism is not a bad thing I guess :D
You won't lose them from one day to another, even if they try to keep their distance, I am sure you will still interact from time to time. So just wait and see, talk to them about your feelings, otherwise, they won't notice.
You might indeed be growing apart, but that's something everyone experiences during their lifetime over and over yourself included. I am not telling you to give up on them, but you already went through it once and found new friends, so no matter how it turns out, you'll be fine!

4 Name: Kuronaii~☆ : 2015-06-15 19:41 ID:RY8thrx3 [Del]

From what youve said it seems like youve had trouble keeping friendships in the past. What i would do is i would be the one to make plans invite them to hang out. That way your always included and you can start to bond again. If you really cant find anything to reconnect with then try talking to new people to make more friends. People are going to come to you, you have to come to them. As i heard from what you were saying when your first bff and you grew apart you waited ton get new friends but if everyone waits then no one will make a move and initiate the friendship. I would also ask them whats wrong or if anything is going on because if there is it would be good to know so you could work it out. Commmunication is key in all types of relationships that includes romantic and friendship. Literally if people in TV shows movies anime and manga ( coughcoughallshoujomangacough) would just sit down and have an honest conversation things would work out a lot better, and if first comes the worst and they don't then they probably wouldnt have anyway and at least its over with and you can get on with your life and start trying to find new friends. ALthough thats not an easy thing and its scary sometimes its what you need to do. Don't worry you'll be fine. If you have any more problems or updates just post again and if I'm here I'll try to help~
Kuronaii~☆

5 Name: The Hermit : 2015-06-23 18:51 ID:PYNXvsIs [Del]

>>4 even though this could help in the short moments, your friends may just rely on you to include yourself and when they make plans they will just forget about inviting you because they would be used to you just being there with out them asking. However that is the worst of what could happen, what most likely would happen is that this method will strenghthen your friendship and be a easy foundation to create a bigger friend group as you could include your old friend/s and see where that leads. However I wouldn't depened on being the one who invites all the time as I have stated above