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help please :/ (3)

1 Name: Erion : 2015-04-10 10:23 ID:WhrASazk [Del]

Hi
It's about a person who has difficulties with her family. She said that they always insulted her, that they used to hit her, and other things like that. For example, one day an anonymous in the street pursue her, when she returned home she began to cry and when she told to her parents what happened, they said that she was a whore, pathetic,etc. Because of those problems she became insomniac, she has health problems and now she doesn't eat anything and when she does she just throw up, she even thought about suicide . She tried to talk to an adult but it didn't help very much .Recently, she tried to cut herself. Do you have any advice for her ? Because we tried to think but each time she's scared about the consequences. :/ I can't very help her so as there are many people very nice here I thought maybe some of you guys could help her.I'm sorry for my bad English .

2 Name: Toastywafflz !qVs0Vq85og : 2015-04-10 14:33 ID:0eZRDSk6 [Del]

It sounds like she's in a household that isn't really doing it's job, that being:
1) Nurturing her
2) Supporting her
3) Helping her grow as a person
That's awful; everybody needs that, she needs that, and I daresay one thing you could do is invite her to join us here and maybe she could find solace in talking to us. In any case, it's a tough situation, and it's good that you're there for her.

She should know that there ARE people out there with thoughts of her and her well-being in mind, even if the scenario she's in restricts her from seeing that a bit; nobody deserves to be treated that way over basically nothing, and eventually she'll be free from the burdens her family foists upon her. The family difficulties won't last forever; eventually when the time comes, she can get away from it, rehabilitate herself mentally and economically, and confront them about it later if she desires to. It helps to appreciate the little things that she has, all the things that don't work against her, like you, for instance ^_^. I know it doesn't seem like much, but we're here for her too, and she can have the support she feels she's lacking. Just keep love close to your heart and try to summon up a good perspective for the mind and she can make it through whatever they throw at her and grow into whatever she wants to be; there's always hope, there's always human potential. She can do it.

As for the health problems, once you stop eating it gets kinda hard to start again, and I don't have too much experience with that aside from when I have had illness, so I think she should try to reintroduce herself to food in a gradual manner. When starving, at least, eating too much will just have the body reject it, so maybe soups and things like that, gently. Drink water, of course, and as for sleep, I think as her mental health stabilizes and she feels a little better (And gets some food in her belly :>) sleep will begin to come more naturally again. I believe in her and I think she can get better, and I know you do too, so I hope that dispels any doubts she might have about herself; you're a good friend and she has good company and that'll make her strong too.

Let us know if you guys need anything else, we aren't going anywhere :>

3 Name: Erion : 2015-04-11 12:50 ID:WhrASazk [Del]

>>2 Thank you for your message, I send her your reply.^^ We both thank you for your support. It's very kind of you for saying this and for trying to help her. Thank you very much. x)