Don't follow
>>3 advice. That just makes you seem like the aggressor, which can put you in a very bad situation with your family, and give the guy an upperhand. Be reasonable. Think logically and talk it out. Simply just ask if you can talk with him, like, "Hey, dude, could we talk for a second?" It's much better to be the non-aggressor because then if he flips out, he's the one who seems unreasonable.