So I've been told by many people that I'm aggressive lately...I just don't know why!!I don't think I'm aggressive...All I'm trying to do is support my opinion and thoughts about the world.But I guess I really AM aggressive...My old classmates saw me one of those days and thought I was crazy!!-.-' They called me a psycho...Behind my back,of course,but they did!I think...I scared them a little...^^' And I just want to let you guys know...Not many people think I'm aggressive...But I am aggressive usually when I'm around boys and people I don't like...And when I'm angry...Or when something bad happens to me or I feel scared...That's it!xD I have many friends but in reality,I'm a really lonely person,you know...That's how I feel,at least...I TRY to get my point across to other people by showing them how I feel about them.For example,if I don't like someone,I don't tell them...I think that's extremely rude...Then again....I AM extremely rude sometimes...But I usually am polite and nice,especially if I'm meeting someone for the first time.(I'll put a little exception there for boys...I don't know why,but deep inside,I'm scared of boys...I never show it,of course,but I am...That's why I can be aggressive around them...)So what do you guys think??Am I aggressive and if I am,what should I do??

just smaash ur tacher or old ladies ull have less anger it works for... look at pic

>>3 Just, shoo :L

Alright! Well completly understandable. Remember your just being yourself. (so stealing this part from Odds and Ends by Hatsune Miku >_>) To many who have tried their best to be theemselves, they suck because they still partially hide behind a mask. You my good friend, at least state your opintions, meaning you know that your opintion makes a difference. it shows you're not a complete weakling. If I rambaled on, and can't spell, I'm on my phone, just telling you in case you're a gammar person. I never can tell :9

>>5 I guess you're right...I'm not saying that stating my opinions is something bad!Actually,I like that part of myself!!;) However...It's the aggressiveness about me that I don't like...:/ And others don't like,either...So what can I do to stop being so stressed and aggressive all the time??
Oh and >>3...That was seriously the stupidest answer anyone has ever given me...-.-' Anyway,I'll take it as a joke,since from what you wrote,I guess you weren't being serious...^.^

Well it is not a bad thing to be aggressive,but you have to control it,unless you are shizuo.Anyway you should control it.I dont say to change who you are but it is your choice.Now about those who judge you,who cares?Next time they call you a phycho tell them that madness is genius.

>>7 'Madness is genius',huh??...I like you!:) This will be my quote from today on...Also...Why should I care???I don't NEED these guys,anyway!!And when I say aggressive,I don't mean violent(although I'm good at martial arts).I guess I just...Tend to get into fights a lot...Verbal fights,mostly.But I can get violent if it's needed...However,that's just a way to defend myself sometimes.I'd never EVER hit somebody because I'm angry.I can control that,don't worry...And,as much as I love Shizuo...We're not alike T.T I'm a reeeeeally big coward deep inside...

I dont know if i am actually happy becauce you are only aggressive and not violent or dissapointed because you are not like shizuo.We need more bartenders who can get things done.Anyway,be yourself,those who know you dont need explanations nor changes.And yes,madness is genius....!

I not think aggressive is the answer.Be calm and frendly.More people will like you like that.Do I help?

i personal love to be friends with someone who states thier opinion and kick ass while doing it but i get the feeling like that sometimes since i get called insane alot.hehehe. i try to brush it off but when get called that alot it sticks.so i change my logic and made it so i feel like it is a complement. i think you are fine the way you are!!! as long as you dont stalck people ;)lol. oh and i want to know what kind of agressive are you? like push people to do something they dont want agressive? or agressive like you dont except anything that you dont want? i need a better understanding on this so i can help!!! kk thats all i can do for now till next time ;)

you sound kinda normal to be honest. most people have their ups and downs depending on the situation. but if some people are saying you seem aggressive then you may be, just ever so slighty more then average. if this is true then maby try and not to to get overly "pushiy" about certain subjects or topics that would normally get you riled. obviously try not to be rude, even if its once and a while such a thing can stick and bring down other peoples opinion of you. overall if you are overly passionate and it annoys somone then maby just toning it downa bit may help....good luck

You aren't aggressive D:
people just don't understand when someone has his own opinion!
they don't want to hear "My point of view is like this and this" because they don't know how to handle it! But it's good to be honest! It's good if you say what you think! You shouldn't change yourself for people who say you are insane etc. even if they don't know you that well!
I really think you should stay the way you are, because we need humans, and to be human means that you have don't just say what everybody else says! So don't ever believe what these stupid assholes say again <.< you're not aggressive just because you get a little bit louder or when you support you opinion!

You guys are right...Now,I believe I'm fine the way I am and I wouldn't change for ANYONE in this world.The truth is,those guys who called me psycho don't know me at all...But I guess they don't understand that someone may differ from them in any way.They were so shocked,because as a little girl,I used to be very quiet and calm.There was nothing wrong EVER said about me.I was the lonely,shy girl with the best grades in my entire class!(because my parents wanted me to be like that)But while I was growing up,I discovered a side of mine much more complicated than my parents wanted it to be.Now I'm 17 years old and nothing like I was back then..But I like myself better now!I'm what I want to be and not my parents...
>>11 To answer your question...I think I'm very pushy at times AND someone who argues upon hearing something different than whet they believe.However,I'm not pushy around people I don't know very well.Firstly,I give them some time to trust me and when they do,then I can be pushy.But only on a verbal way.I don't like hitting people who are close to me...Also,about stalking...I guess you can say I want to be well-informed about some people(mostly people who I fight with a lot and close friends of mine).But I'm not a stalker...I think...xD I try learn things about them while chatting with them or with their friends/people that know them.But I don't follow them around or set cameras in their houses!Now that would be creepy...As you can see,I'm really reeeally trying to look normal...No matter how much my attempts fail...:3

hahahahaha thats great and dont worry i am a total freak and i love it. it good to be yourself and to illstrate my point i wore my WHITE WIG TO SCHOOL today and i was told i was pretty so there!! mwahahahha cosplay forever. now back on topic i think it is awesome that you now have confidence in yourself!!!!! that is one of the number one things you need to survive a social life. since i have so much canfidence they acctuallly go to my face and ask why i am so wired, but i truly have no answer for them.lol

>>1 Ignore them, I'm agresive to and I I don't care