I agree, the dating problems thread was made for this exact kind of question. I'll post my response here, but I suggest you redirect further questions to that thread - there's no shame in it, nobody here knows who you are or anything.
>>1 That's kind of a dumb question. She's not getting irritated because you ask what-if questions, she's getting irritated because of what questions you're asking. What sort of answer did you expect from "what should I do to people who court you," exactly? I mean let's look at the options that aren't "don't do anything":
A) She could tell you to beat them up, but that would mean she wants you to beat up random/all men who think she's attractive
B)
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That' really the only option I can think of. So it was kind of a loaded question, and since that's the only other logical conclusion it sort of implies that you would want to beat them up for her. She likely doesn't want you to show off for her at their expense, since in the end that's a dick move. Doesn't matter if it was a hypothetical; she saw through the question's intent. Just try to be less transparent.