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My thoughts. (5)

1 Name: Brokuta : 2016-01-07 13:45 ID:Y8RznT7T [Del]

Well i thought I'd give you something better than before. These are only my thoughts. But at least give them a look, it might just change the way you see things. I cover a wide variety of topics, and I only put my thoughts in if I have experience or the right to speak about it.

So here are my thoughts on friends, for those of you who feel alone.

For people that post things on social media that for instance say, "if i disappeared would you look for me?", "would you miss me if i disappeared?, etc. just stop. Life and friendship isn't about how much attention others give you, how many friends you have. It's more or less the people that you have around you, and the people that want to be around you. If someone doesn't like you then that's there loss. Don't mope about life wishing you had more friends or more attention from your friends, they aren't the main focus of your life, they are around to support you and lift you up along the way. And if you don't have any friends just get up and keep walking, don't let things stop you from living a life you can enjoy.

2 Name: aslaug_ : 2016-01-08 05:44 ID:pHk0e9OD [Del]

Really like this post.
And i agree a lot with you on this topic. Social media glorifies having many friends and i dont think that is right. We have to focus more on just being happy and i feel like that is absolutely possible without being surrounded by tons of people. Having just one or two friends is good too. It can be hard to make friends especially if you dont feel like everyone else, but as you say in your post, dont let that stop you from living an enjoyable life!

3 Name: rrrria : 2016-01-08 06:36 ID:1l+WhSuP [Del]

if you don't have friends and you're really lonely sometimes you do this stuff lmao
say what you want, but sadly there are people who only have friends online and its unfortunate but people are cruel. you don't know what happened to them. if you don't have friends in the society you're a literal outcast i would know
i know you're trying to sound deep and "empowering" or something but you're kinda-- not
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

4 Name: Jalexander : 2016-01-08 06:40 ID:RapoVdau [Del]

>>3 He didn't say having only cyber friends is bad...he said people should stop being attention and like whores by posting lame statuses.

5 Name: Brokuta : 2016-01-09 21:37 ID:l+bPkHQf [Del]

@rrrria
I'm not really trying to sound deep, and I understand what your saying. I actually know what I'm talking about because I used to never have friends. I used to move alot as a child, maybe 3 between or 4 schools a year, and eventually i couldn't take people being ripped from my life anymore so i built up a wall, and didn't let anyone in. So to everyone who doesn't have any friends, your not an outcast thats for sure. There are people who want to be your friends, and there are most likely people around you who feel the same way you do.