>>36 Video
uploading? That is a different issue altogether. That requires reserving a fuckton of bandwidth on the server just to accommodate anyone who wants to upload stuff. Embedding is a thing on websites because it doesn't use any server space - it just pulls a video from another host. Plus, giving either Reltair or the mods this extra crapload of work just sounds petty for a problem already deemed insignificant and aesthetic.
Leigha suggests the embed code anyway in
>>37. Youtube even provides the embed code, making it that much simpler.
On further inspection, it seems you can customize the frame size for the youtube video when you embed it. So an extra field in the new reply box for youtube URL's is all it needs - though the URL would have to be checked and parsed and shit to ensure it's an embed-able youtube video.
I sort of like the idea of a "show video" button that just hides the embedded video until you click it, much like a spoiler tag, but it again begs the question - if you have to click something before loading the video anyway, why not just link to youtube? What positive result is there from viewing it on a resized window on BBS itself, when you can just open the video in its natural size in another window entirely?
Don't forget that the BBS is a message board, not Tumblr.