I'm in my 20s. I have had several terrible experiences with men. Never been asked out. It seems every woman I see gets a boyfriend, and I get nothing. I heard most women get asked out. I hate seeing couples in public reminding me of what I don't have. My brothers get girlfriends left and right. What is wrong with me? I try to be nice and dress nicely, but nothing. Maybe I'm not attractive enough. I think I hate men.

Cheer up!! You’re still young and beautiful someone will find you sooner or later don’t give up

If you think something is wrong with yourself, reflect further. If you believe it's due solely to external factors such as your appearance, you would be mistaken, but your attitude towards romance will play a role. Don't rush too much, and if you find someone you like, don't always wait for them, they won't always take the hint, no matter how obvious it may seem to you. While men are considered the more likely one to ask others, they can also be notoriously dense much of the time, nobody wants to ask someone out if they don't think they have a chance. That's just setting themself up for failure.

TLDR: Patience is key, appear interested.

Well, I never ask out to anyone, but if u really want we could try to talk. I'm also around 20 if it can help (and shy)

Im in my later 20's and a guy. I used to be just like that when I was younger and it sucks in the moment but it's not really anyone's fault or anything it just IS you know? But if you ever wanna talk I'm here for you buddy.

hey there!! just wanted to let you know that you are still very loved, even if it means in a way you're not anticipating. i know it can be frustrating to see the people around you falling in love, getting into relationships, and receiving attention from others, but you are much more than your relationship status!

i'm also in my 20s and never had my first anythings, but once i grew out of that mindset (that you're currently battling with) through acceptance, i became much calmer. you and i may be chopped, but that's totally okay !!! what matters most is that you keep being you, because nobody else will. much love to you. i hope everything works out!

Ok I was the same, but I wasn't interested in dating.

Until I met this one guy. We were hanging out but he never asked me out. So I said "you're my boyfriend and we're dating". I didn't give him a choice lol, and now we're married with a kid.

This only worked out because it was mutual interest in each other.

A lot of folks are scared to ask people out, especially for a man to ask someone out. Obviously it varies by region and individual, but many men just look at it as a good way of getting accused of being a creep, of people tearing apart their attempt to other women or online. While it doesn't hurt to look at yourself to see if there is some issue on your end, you also need to understand that dating in general these days is extremely hard; especially once you get out of high school/college days.

Hi!
I somewhat have similar expiriences, and I just wanted to say that, please dont settle for anything less that you deserve. If a guy ask you out, dont say yes just because he asked you out. Take your time to get to know him and once your absolutely sure that he is goint to treat you right, then go out with him. But even after that, please dont undermine your needs in the relationship. It will just eat you up from the inside.

Sorry if this was irrevelant, I just dont want anyone to settle for less, just because they want a relationship, and might jump into one as soon as they got the chance. So have some self respect. Your an amazing person, with even more amazing skills and qualities, and if anyone tells you otherwise, Im going to beat them up. :)

don't worry about niggas just get your paper up and the rest will figure itself out

People say it all the time, but loving yourself first is an absolute must. Find what that means for you, and someone who recognizes your value will come along with ease.

If none of the solid advice here resonates with you, perhaps a new haircut or a perfume to help make you feel a bit more attractive. Spend money and time on yourself. Take care of the relationship you have with yourself first. It's what I do, and I can afford to be as picky as I want when it comes to men. Chin up, love!