1 Name: Rii : 2025-06-02 10:09 ID:1VlMT08G [Del]
My partner and I have been talking about marriage tonight and we both have different ideas on what we want. We come from very different families. Mine is very bogan and his is sort of a higher class in a way, my family is also larger than his is have 5 siblings and he has 1. He mentioned having just immediate family meaning he'd not invite cousins/aunts/uncles that he's close with. I just feel like it will be unfair of me to have my siblings and their children and he will have like 8 people present for his side (mine would be almost 30 if including children which is hard not to as my family is out of state). He also mentioned having separate celebrations after including his extended family so it's not like they'd be completely out of it. I just feel like it's unfair he wouldn't have everyone important to him at the actual wedding just because people in my family wouldn't socialise well
