Hi, I need advice. I've been thinking about breaking up with my SO for some time now. But it hurts. It hurts me, why is that? What does this mean? We've been together for 2 years. And it's not just the same anymore. He doesn't care for me the same. Maybe I only loved superficially? I'm not happy in the relationship anymore too. I always feel unfair because I always understand him and he doesn't understand me. He doesn't get me the way I do. He used to. In the past. But things are just different now. Though I feel like he still loves me, like he still loves me so much but I'm just. I'm falling out of love for him. And he probably has no idea. I told him last night, he was quite for a while and later said that he wanted to cry. We were silent then and then went home like nothing was said and nothing happened. Today, he only texted good morning. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm in pain. I don't understand if I should go through with the break up or not. It's just, I haven't been as happy as before anymore. It makes me feel shallow about myself, but that's really the main reason why. I feel bad. Is this the reason why I'm hurt? Is this the only reason? Why does this hurt me too? Are there any others who went through this? What do we do?

You should probably talk it out with him. The best way to understand why you feel that way is to have great communication. You said that he didn't care for and get you like he did in the past. You should tell him that and maybe you'll learn how you truly feel in your relationship.