Hi everyone. Here's my story. There's a girl I love. We're both member of a same church but she lives in different city. She only goes here when we've an activity at church. There was a party I asked her to dance with me. After that day I chatted. After two weeks I confessed my feelings for her. I can't remember what she answered that time. BTW we only see each other like once or twice a month. Sometimes I go to her place and vice versa. We always chat each other every single day since after the party. One time I went over her place. She said to me that I have a chance to be her boyfriend but she also said I need to wait because she's too young and so many things to work out. I said to her that I can wait. We still chat and meet. I think this confusing thing is progressing. She hugs me and hold my hands when we're together. She's so sweet by her actions but not quite in words because when we chat she's always the topic or what she doing. Basically I think she's a self-centered person? Or only wants my attention. Every time I say I love her she only say thank you. It's been 11 month since that party. I'm sorry for this long story. Guys what do you think I should do? Wait for her to love me or leave? Is she string me along? I love her and I understand what she's going through. Please help me. Thank you!!!

Okay, how far apart in age are the two of you, for her to say she's too young?

Maybe She's not the verbal type of person. Maybe she thinks actions speak louder than words, or maybe she likes to buy you things.

Do you ever try talking about yourself? Even if she doesn't ask? If you do, does she steer the conversation back to her? If she doesn't want to talk about you or your day like you apparently do with her, that's a red flag.

Have the two of you ever done anything intimate? Have you kissed? It sounds like you only chat via online or text, and you only see each other at most twice a month. in my opinion, seeing each other twice a month in no way gives your relationship the sustainability or stability it needs.

If you only see her 24 times in a year, are you sure it's not lust talking here? Are you so sure you're in love with her?

Bro, it's only been 11 months, not even a year has passed and you want her to say I love you? Relationships take time. Do not rush. I personally think you're trying to take this too fast. Also, have you talked to her about this? Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. If she doesn't want to talk about it, that's also a red flag.

It's also entirely possible that she IS stringing you along. In that case, leave her ass. There are plenty of other women who won't crush your heart.

theres a girl we go to the same school and i like her but she dosent like me and i don't know how to ask her out please leave comment on how i should ask her out.