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Help for a friend [R- Rated] (1)

1 Name: Haruka : 2016-08-29 10:09 ID:9OHoogXV [Del]

So a friend of mine got involved with a really bad person lately. He's known for being a player and approches girls he finds attractive and gets close until he asked them to do "favours" for him.
recently he got in touch with my friend. they knew each other since they were young but havent talked in over a decade. He approched her over txt and asked for nudes the first time they talked.

now, any other person would block him immidietly, but for some reason, my friend continued this conversation with him for over 7 months. Regularly talking about stuff thats r- rated.

over time, his personality had begun to change. yes they were still talking about that stuff, but for once they had a regular conversation. frankly i was proud. he started to worry a bit of my friend over regular things like her health and stuff. and even while talking about r-rated things he started to show some form of gentlenss.

Me and her cousin started giving her some advice. we decrypted his actions and words and came up with the conclusion that he had a romantic intrest in her (so not just using her for r-rated things).

After my friend finally gave in to his demands and did what he wanted. twice. after that, he cut her off, saying "thanks for the head. Goodbye" those exact words. My friend had been in deppression for a week, because she actually started to like him. but a week later he came back saying "sorry, my bad"

my friend was more wary this time. she kept bringing up the fact that he cut her off and he still kept askig for r- rated things. she didnt give in this time. she tried having another regular conversation with him, (since that was so rare).

during this rare event, he said he would make her his girlfriend by the time he finishes his 5th year. he even talked about marraige, which sounded like bull.

Litterally 3 days after this conversation, he said he's getting back together with his ex. -_-

this broke my friends heart, but what hurt most, was when he asked to do things with her, even though he is now in a relationship. this was when me and her cousin lost all respect for this man.

so now, fellow Dollars, i need some advice to help her. I knew this friend since i was young and honestly, I am done seeing her fall so low because of someone that she was warned about.

Currently, she wants to know if he will be back, and she misses him. despite him being such a wanker to her. she's a pretty sensitive person, and he gets into deppression pretty easily. Plus for her, its hard to get over him.

So please give me some advice that i can pass on to her.