So I'm in a weird spot...

I just graduated highschool, and left to go halfway across the country to go to college (my whole family lives in California so i was basically forced to move back to California). In the last year of highschool i had seriously the best girlfriend in the wole world for a long time (the longest ever for me) and she was totally into me and everything. She was also 2 years behind me in school.

When I moved we decided it would be best if we not pretend to keep the relationship going via telecommunications, but she was so sad to see me go that i facetimed with her a lot to try making the transition easier for her.

While in the begining i was really trying tobury my regret about the situation and be "strong for her", the loneliness is now months later hitting me super hard and i don't have anyone out here i can really rely on but my dad...

Here's the thing, communication between the two of us turned to just texting 2-3 times a week during the second month of being apart, but now I'm just starting my own healing process, it seems like she is much happier....


SO I'm on here now because i just offered to facetime with her after showering and she said it was cool and when i got back she was asleep...

Should i just give up on trying to talk with her for some kind of closure?

Can you just simplify it at the start and state who you're saying goodbye to?

Closure does not exist. The only thing close to closure you will ever get is to just move on in whatever direction you need to until you stop thinking about it.

Yeah, i guess that's more or less all there is to be done...

maybe i'm not the best in this kind of situation, but i think you should try some more before giving up.

In my opinion theres no reason to stop talking to her she could still be a good person to know..but as far as closure you should probably look somewere else ..cali is cool i live in cali u can meet alot of nice ppl here try going out and making friends keeping yourself busy its good to keep ur mind of stuff just try to keep busy with good productive things like school work or a good hobby..but never feel alone you have us ..the dollars :)

Just as Proto said, you'll find nothing but grief from talking to her. It'll be tough to move on, but eventually you should cease communication until further notice. (I.E. regaining your composure on life)

I usually don't go on personal, but I did for once cuz I needed some lulz, instead I saw this and figured I oughta help a bro out.
Truth is mi amigo, ya gotta "give up". I saw "give up" with little air quotes because giving up is stopping when there's still a chance. I don't mean to be a downer, but you guys are super far away, she seems happy and frankly long distance relationships barely ever last that long, especially among the high school/college demographic.
Besides, your post said that the lonliness was getting to you, not her. While I don't doubt the break up is hitting you pretty hard, I think you may just be lonely. New place, almost everyone you knew is out of your life physically, probably don't got a lot of friends there, you just gotta get out there and try to keep going on with new people and do new things.

Hope that helps, if not well then fuck me right?