1 Name: scáth : 2012-03-13 02:45 ID:3Gbzki6V [Del]
we are both young, like to have fun, get along really well, bla bla bla… basically we would be really good for each other. which is why we have so much fun together.
about a year ago i was visiting a friends college (im enrolled in a different but relatively close college). we went out to a party, met some girls hung out and (a non-sexual) relationship happened with her and her friends. now we are all close friends.
im not gonna lie, im a guy in his early 20s so of course sex and all that crap came into my mind, but for the most part i just enjoyed nerding out with them it was just fun.
a few weeks after it was my birthday weekend and they all invited me to come back to their school and hang out, go to a party, have fun and what not. well one thing led to another and the one girl of the group that i was interested in ended up spending the night together. and meny more after. now its been a few weeks since ive seen her in person, but we talk a bit.
this weekend i was out with some guys i grew up back home and i was hitting it off with this random girl (nothing happend) but all i could think of was the girl i been sleeping with. i think i want to make her my girlfriend, but i have no idea what shes been doing.
i have to say i would be upset if i found out she had been seeing someone else or sleeping around.(i wouldnt tell her though) because we never talked about being exclusive or whatever. so advice?
im seeing her this friday
2 Name: MKOLLER !YYk5m0jo12 : 2012-03-13 02:51 ID:GLR96g3B [Del]
I'd say talk about it when you see her. Be honest about how you feel, but be sure to listen to everything she has to tell you. And if you want my personal opinion, a relationship built on sex limits how exclusive it can be. Meaning you cannot fault her if she decides to flirt with other guys so long as ground rules are upheld (which both of you would have to agree upon).
3 Name: Terroth : 2012-03-14 10:08 ID:4ajRDfdT [Del]
I believe it can develop from sex as long as you don't lose sight of yourself and her.
I agree with MKOLLER as well, express your feelings well and don't give up too fast, it's not romantic to just give up, don't go making trouble beeing to much though.
Good luck! :)
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5 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-05-04 18:14 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]
To much info.
6 Name: soul : 2012-05-04 18:42 ID:YqVot8hn [Del]
dipeneds on the people if all u do is have sex then no but if u get to now them better then yes u can i mean thats how we are
