>>5 Slowing down light would only impose a lower limit on all other moving object. You cannot exceed the speed of light. Period. However, INCREASING the speed of light will theoretically allow you to move "faster than light" (rather faster than light was moving before, anyway).
As for bending space, this is what an Alcubierre drive does. Wormholes are another valid solution, if it is possible to create one (no physics yet to prove it's not).
>>6 Antimatter is not actually different from regular matter in that way. A concentration of antimatter would STILL create a black hole.