Okay, here we go...

My problem is;

My family. My mother and father isnt grttin along since 2 years, and my father has been sleeping on the sofa for 2 years because of my mother. My mother always shouts, etc. So I was on my fathers side.

BUT
I learned that my father was telling this family problem to another woman which I will call 'S' here. And at the begining of August my father said "lets divorce" to my mother

Then in September my father left the home leaving me and my mother alone. He said that he went to my brothers home.

A few weeks before my birthday, he bought a phone to me and when I asked my brother he said "Oh, really? I didnt know." So i figured that he wasnt staying with my brother.

Then after a few days, i met with my father and he took me to the cinema. At the cinema he was texting with both my brother and a womans name which I read "S" (im not saying her name srry).

I told my mother this and she got furious since my father said he will be gone to relax. And she believed in him. I said I needed glasses and I was sure that I read the name correctly.

After that, on a weekend, my father mother and I went to buy glasses for me and they kind of made up.

I was so happy when my father hugged my mother and said sorry and thus he came back.

Thats when the problem started.

This "S" bitch was still on my fathers mind and he was still talking to her also he admitted that he loved her. Even near "S" he was looking at some other girls so i am sure that my father needs to go to a pshyciathrist (i dunno how i write it.).

Even this "S" said that stop calling me and messing with my feelings. But my father called her and caused tension in house etc.

As I told you before my brother took my ather so my mother was angry at him. But a few weeks ago my brother came back and they made up with my mother. My brother went through alot his girlfriend told me all of the problem;

It seems that before my father came to house he called my brother to "S" s house and asked him 'Do we look nice together?' My brother said he nearly killed that bitch but he learned a lot of information.

On saturday when my brother was here I opened my fathers computer since I knew his password. And I found "S"s CV.

I told my brother and mother and they put the file in a usb and trabsferred it to moms computer. So we learnt everything about her and even her photo. She was really ugly and beside my mother she was like a rubbish.

So my father talked to me yesterday and said "whatever happens you are my baby girl that wont change honey". Dont think of my father as a bad person he is really kind and gentle...

But then they started arguing with mom and she said I know everything about her etc. And said all the info my brother learnt. Then he said shut up to my mom and I shouted you shut up you are one to talk you cheater.

He was really sad but I think i did the truth. Actually this problem affected me in school. I was crying all the time and my best friend who is also my boyfriend now hugged me and said it will be alright all the time; he still does.

My pshycology is fucked up. Please I beg you help me, what should I do?!!

PS. Sorry the post is long, I know :/

I'm kinda scratching my head 'cause I don't really have any advice for you, sorry, but on the Personal page, I sure you'll find advice for your situation. I agree with your boyfriend that it will be alright, though it looks like it will be a very rocky road until then. Best of wishes, though, and hang in there. :)

Sorry my bad, my phone opens the sports page whenever I click Personal... *sigh*
How embrassing! ^^'

I feel so bad for you... I really do... I know how you feel.

At times when you feel exetremly stressed and can't control it, do something that you like. Make a new hobby. Play a game. Hang out with friends. Or go to your counciler. Hope this helps~!

I feel you. All I can say is that you'll learn to deal with most of the problems. My dad has his own "s". I have met. She is insane. But it will get better.

/saged