I have this girl ive been talking too. Shes been super sweet and wonderful to be around and ive had such and amazing time talking to her. I really enjoy being around her. A week ago she hit into a depression episode. Which is okay, i struggle eith them myself. I thought she was doing much better until recently. Last night we were playing games together and we were talking about soemthing and it somehow got around to losing ur v card. I said i had at 15 and had sex after that too. She called me disgusting. I thought she was joking as i thought wed had a really good day. I went offline for a little bit and when i came back on i asked her if she was serious since i didnt really know. Turns out she was. She said it was gross that i already knew how it felt. I asked her if it was that big of a deal and she said something along the lines of, yes and no i dont care because it makes me step away. It honestly kinda hurt my feelings. She said she was hating on everyone right now. And said it hurt my feelings, she started saying crap about yummy emotional damage. Again still hurt my damn feelings. I got over it this morning, but she was still be standoffish and rude and angry. I tried asking her why and she just said, gag. I said i just wanted to talk things out and she said i dont want to tho, and i said why would you not tell me that, because i cant read her damn mind. She told me to stfu, and started texting me in that kinda, passive aggressive way again. I dont know what im supposed to do. Its driving me insane. I dont know if she wants space because she wont flat out tell me damn anything. I dont want my heart to break over this but i want her still so bad. I fucking miss her, and i hate that i feel like this. I dont know what to do. Can anyone offer advice?

I should mention. Ive been nothing but sweet to her. As far as i know I haven't crossed any boundries or done anything wrong. But she wont talk to me so i have no damn idea what her deal is i just need help

Mmh, maybe yeah, give her some time and space. I understand that it's hard because you would like to have some answers and you miss her, but maybe just letting her do her things might help.

At the same time, let me tell you that she messed up badly by insulting you for having sex at 15, like.. she shouldn't have reacted like that, instead she should have accepted it, without judging.
Anyway, I'm slightly late, any updates?

+ sometimes when people stop talking to you just like that, you just have to make peace with yourself and move on, it's not on you, it's not something you did, it's on them. But I think it's slightly early to move on in your case, maybe she rlly just needs some time.
Often people need some time totally alone, that doesn't excuse her behavior ofc but still.
Also, don't overthink too much, I know this situation might torture you mentally, but try to not think about whys or abt what you might have done wrong, that's useless and harmful for u :(

Hope my opinion is somehow helpful, lmk

Thabk you for your advice, yes there is an update too.

After me pressing for answers despite trying to stay away, she told me she didnt want to talk about it. So i stopped saying anything about it. Later that night it was like she was back to normal. Talking and texting me like nothing happened. Im still worried she doesnt like me as much and i hope she does. I know she talks to other guys too and it breaks my heart that she might prefer someone else over me. But idk for sure.

Mmh.. it's valid to not wanting to talk about it immediately... but mmh..
I personally don't like how she treated you, i'm still thinking about that.
Often making another person's problem about ourselves is pretty dumb, but you can't excuse too much some of her behaviors either.
This situation is pretty complicated.
I think it all depends on what you want.

You shouldn't overthink it too much because you ruin yourself that way, if she doesn't like you very much, it's on her, your world shouldn't revolve around her but should do it around yourself.
And yes ofc other ppl in your life matter and we don't have to be egoistic blablabla, but remember that your own mental health is more important.

Anyway, sorry i got a bit.. off topic.

My advice is: don't worry about her not liking you as much, focus on: do you actually like her that much? Is she good for your mental health?
Keep talking to her, try to not overthink too much, try to understand if you like her that way or platonically as friend.
And if she prefers someone else over you, then move on, you can be friends, but do not prioritize who doesn't prioritize you, it's obviously a waste of time, it's not worth it and you deserve better. She's not the only one, even if it might look like she is, but trust me she isn't.

Of course you should just read this, think about it and then act on your own, it's just an advice

Tbh i wish i would have read this earlier. Its really good solid advice i needed to hear. But i fucked up. I got angry and asked her flat out because i was tired of feeling like shit and her not being straight up with her feelings. I called her dry, i put words in her mouth and assumed shit about how she felt. I fucked up. Shes mad at me and im fucking just sad and empty now. I hate that i love jer as much as i do

mmh, it can happen to fuck things up, she did that too, if we rlly want to look at it.
Don't be too hard with yourself, you were wrong for reacting like that, yes, but it is understandable. We're humans, we have feelings that can be hurt and we have to learn how to react in healthier ways. But we're not born with this ability, we have to learn with mistakes, u might already know that.
Anyway, take your time to process what happened, talk to her again if you're ready to explain her the situation better.
I don't really know if time can help, give her some space but don't wait too long to apologize for reacting badly??

Lmk btw, remember that your feelings and reactions are human and very valid, you weren't totally wrong for doing what you did, it's the way you did it that is wrong, but communication is the key and the fact that she doesn't say shit is a big red flag, man.
So draw your own conclusions.