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Just sharing my thoughts tho becz it bothers me (2)

1 Name: avery : 2022-05-01 21:51 ID:2s8/KtyF [Del]

So this bothers me (im sharing this since i dont want my friends to know abt this lol).

idk if u know abt a site where you get match up with a stranger and chat for fun. Well, I had a great time yesterday chatted with a guy from another country and kinda honest to me since were just mere strangers. He was telling abt stuff (yk sex educ.) just for references since I'm not that expert with that stuff lol. He was somehow expert lmaoo he knows everything abt than me although im older than him for only a year. So, then he made to the point he asked me for my ig acc. Of course, im a private person and dont take pictures to my face. But he was curious as how I look like becz I told him I was petite, short, small face (which is a very opposite from his type becz he likes curvy girls, he said). Then I told him I cannot but and apologise but then he gave me his acc ID then we bid goodbyes after.

Actually, what I feel is that, I'm happy that I'm able to connect with someone from another country especially from a guy. I'm an introvert with small close friends and kinda afraid to make a first move towards guys because I have experiences getting catcalled by some dudes or some are trying to find ways to connect with me, in a romantic way not in a friendly manner. It's sad tho that I was a snober towards guys because of my trust issues LOL but I was trying to connect becz I want to have guy friends and to know what if feels like.

So anyways, back to the topic, I searched his acc ID in ig then it was on private, I wanted to chat him but kinda afraid because yk, I still have guts that im afraid with guys LOL. So if you're in my position, am I going to look forward in chatting him or just let it slide and forget abt it?

2 Name: Z : 2022-05-06 01:10 ID:BaqeWjb/ [Del]

Well, I;m not in your position but I certainly relate to the feeling of hitting it off with a stranger online- as much as people try to point out how "terribly detrimental" online friendships are, and how they're supposedly "short-lived"-
But I say, life is short, just try!
That's all you can really do, and oh well if it turns out that maybe there isn't a romantic connection, at least you'll have one more person to call a friend! :)