1 Name: Shilian : 2021-12-06 11:23 ID:ua/unJtP [Del]
I'm in love with this girl,but she only treats me as her best friend. She knew about my feelings yet she still clings to me and tell me about her crushes. And this times she likes someone I never met before,he joined our group of friends,tho we aren't close,but I thought he was a nice guy.he might treat her good,but later on he acted like a jerk,chii(the girl I like) kept coming to me for advice,days goes on and the guy treated her coldly, eventually I got tired. I contacted the guy and told him to reject chii if he wasn't interested,but the guy got mad and said he wont. I told chii to just move on and that it isn't healthy anymore,but she kept contacting the guy, I got really upset and said things to her and avoided her, was I wrong?
2 Name: whoknos : 2021-12-13 16:53 ID:qAcOl7W0 [Del]
Yes.
She's not responsible for how you feel. Thats #1. And you always accepting the responsibility of how she feels sets a bad precedent. Thats #2. You're not honest about how you feel, that's #3.
Youre putting yourself where you are lying to the people you love and lying to yourself trying to keep up something you can't. Problem with them two is they do t know shit about each other. But that doesn't mean curiosity doesnt exist.
#4 and most important. Don't mistake how you feel. Take some time to consider biology vs reason. There is a difference between having Respect and Compassion towards someone, and just being horny with the benefit of being in proximity to someone you Respect and have Conpassion for.
The first thing you will do is fuck it up if you want to let your hormones decide what your Compassion means. I fu ked up a lot being hot and heated when I should had realized that people are for an of their own selves. Theyre not here for what you want from them.
3 Name: Iris : 2021-12-19 13:45 ID:tVIdhv6b [Del]
To be More Modest and Simple. If she wants you She'd tell you and doing that clingy crap is a Sham because she's afraid of being alone. Tell Her How you Feel and that you do Love Her, Or Be a Shut In Forever and also Be Alone because you Chickenshit your Emotions and never speak out-loud. Oh and something else, If she continues to talk about her other relationships !GIVE HER THE BOOT! because She's not worth it. And Whoknos Your Wrong, Shillian If you Told Her that the Guy she is seeing is a Total Dick and is not worth it and She Still see's him. Completely Block Her from Everything, If She's that Dumb to Date a Dick Let Her, She'll Eventually Realize it 10-20 years down the Road and she'll regret it. Shillian Your Not Responsible for her actions Remember that.
