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Lesbian or bi (6)

1 Name: Fant : 2021-09-28 17:08 ID:I9ViYLfe [Del]

I think I am a lesbian. I really don't like to question myself, but that's what bothers me a lot. I know I love girls, that's for sure. But I don't know if I'm bi or gay.

I actually want to end up with a girl and physically speaking I'm 99.99% attracted to girls. But at the same time I'm thinking about a boy a lot at the moment.

I don't think I'm in love but I think of him very often, I want to see him, to confide in him.

Honestly, yes, that's what makes me doubt.

That is, I never really had any friends so I don't know if it's normal to feel that as a friend. Just enlighten me on this point because I am questioning my sexuality xD

Ps: oh and I'm asexual so this is only in romantic sense.

2 Name: ハテナ : 2021-09-28 23:55 ID:D7h21R2y [Del]

Im also dealing with a similar problem. I'm wondering wether I'm straight or bi. I'm right now into this guy but I'm also kind of attracted to girls? Idk.

I just wanted to say, don't worry you're not alone in this.

3 Name: EpicKeith !K31THxH0Es : 2021-10-02 17:04 ID:oZq+rfFe [Del]

This could very easily be platonic feelings.
But also, don't stress over labels so much. You'll likely switch labels as you figure yourself out, but also remember you don't need to use one if you don't have it figured out yet. It can be as simple as just saying what you're sure of ("I like girls") and not putting a label on it. Could be easier to figure things out that way. Although, if labels help you, go for it! But don't feel like you have to pick one and stay with it for the rest of your life. I've gone back and forth between bi and gay, personally. It happens. No stress.

4 Name: ハテナ : 2021-10-04 23:50 ID:D7h21R2y [Del]

>>3 thanks for the advice; I really needed that today

5 Name: Fant : 2021-10-05 05:46 ID:/zf+NEdZ [Del]

Yes thanks you both

6 Name: Ju : 2021-10-08 09:37 ID:aF7rJ33e [Del]

Maybe read this can help you : https://sourceful.us/doc/308/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc

For me it helped me a lot