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What does this mean? (4)

1 Name: Darkstrike : 2021-08-16 16:52 ID:9YpixkFV [Del]

So the other day I was having a zoom call with my teacher like usual and he asks me a question on the lines of: What if I was a stranger and I walked up to you how would you feel? I told him that I would leave and I cracked jokes about it and then he smiled and laugh and skipped the subject all together. Any advice please?

2 Name: 3rd : 2021-08-17 00:38 ID:2laqda3d [Del]

IMPORTANT: Document this as much as possible. If they say something like this in a text chat, screenshot it or take a picture, if they bring it up again in a voice chat, start recording your conversations in whatever way possible so you are able to put together a case if needed.

I would leave it for now, but the next time they say something weird like this I think you should call it out to them. Don't over do it to the point where you risk causing tension or conflict, but let them know that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you would like to talk about something else. Set a firm boundary line between what's appropriate to you, and what's not.

If they do it a third time, depending on the extent of the weirdness, I think your options can either be to warn them again/reaffirm your boundaries, or if it's more severe/creepy, let somebody know. The person you can let know could be a family member, or another teacher who works with them. One of the best things you can do is spread awareness of the situation, particularly with those that know both you, and the other person. These are people or are most likely to be able to interfere and stop the situation from reoccurring.

If things continue to get worse, go from 0 to 100, or get to the extent that you no longer feel safe for whatever reason, you should report it authorities and ensure you are somewhere where you will be safe (somewhere that the person won't be aware of you living, or with authorities). Let those around you know what's going on if you haven't already, and work with your law enforcement. If you've documented at least part of the occurrences of creepiness this will be much easier.

3 Name: Darkstrike : 2021-08-17 11:34 ID:9YpixkFV [Del]

I live in the state of California so I can't do that but I was thinking the next time I go there since I don't have him anymore ask him what he meant by it cause it's so vague.

4 Name: Darkstrike : 2021-08-23 02:42 ID:9YpixkFV [Del]

Also wtf do you think it means dude?