1 Name: casanova : 2021-03-10 16:11 ID:WwMVPw9C [Del]
hi, so I'm in a kind of weird situation for me. I have a tendance to 'fall in love' with a lot of girls (my age) and I usually explain by my (may sound weird) love for women. now the problem is I usually just forget it if I don't see the person but there is that one girl that caught my eye and I can't stop thinking abt her. She's in my class and she's just behind me now the thing is that our relation (not as bf, GF) is like a rollercoaster sometimes she's kind and nice but sometimes she's cold. when I realized that situation wasn't healthy I tried to forget her but without success. Each time there was something bringing her back to my mind so anyways she's still haunting my thoughts and I'm really not used to it and I think I need help on what to do.
Ps: I discovered recently that you could say she a freak and that just got me more drawn to her also everything abt her is perfect she's like my dream girl.
2 Name: Yoshiki[Knight] : 2021-03-10 21:33 ID:8mMzdaxf [Del]
What does your mind say? Do you love her or do you want to forget her? I suggest that you follow what your mind tells you.
When your mind says that you love her from the bottom of your hypothalamus, then give it a try. Make a move.
But when your mind says otherwise, your limerence will fade away as time goes by.
Psychologically though, if you're thinking about someone, that means he/she is thinking about you first.There are other psychological ways to know whether someone is interested in you.
3 Name: casanova : 2021-03-11 20:29 ID:WwMVPw9C [Del]
But that's the problem its the first time that my mind is lost because of a girl T-T
4 Name: spybot : 2021-03-12 18:10 ID:8K0skOvn [Del]
Hello. I think you should give it a try. Make a move. What are the consequenses? If she is isterested, i think you will notice somehow and you two can get along. If not, you tried and that's how life works. But my advice to you is that this behavior can be sometimes obsessive and you should be careful about it. My guess is that you preffer to stay in that comfortable place because it is easier for you to handle the situation that way, you are afraid and you do not want to face it, so your mind never stops thinking about the possibilities. You don't necessarily have to say "listen, I like you". Just ask her out casually or things like that, try to read her behaviour. Good luck!
