1 Name: Modraniht : 2021-01-02 04:20 ID:Gd6uFXfU [Del]
Hey everyone, I used to post on here some years ago and honestly going through it all again has put a smile on my face, especially with times being so rough lately. But anyway, onto the point of the thread, my girlfriend and I seem to be getting more and more distant, we used to talk all the time, we'd play games together, watch movies, and so on. But now, we have started shutting each other out, our friend groups only overlap to a very minimal extent, and we don't really communicate what's going on with us anymore. It feels as if that spark we had is gone. Which sucks because we started planning out our life together. We were gonna move to the countryside and have 3 girls named Lucy, Holly, and Yvette. We'd grow to be old ladies together but I just can't see that future for us anymore. She's brought up the same issues as well before and it seems nothing is going anywhere. I have a feeling eventually things will just break, but I worry about how she'll feel if we do end up splitting. Any ideas on how to handle this?
2 Name: dieman : 2021-01-03 23:39 ID:yXc2Ttgd [Del]
If things end, don't let them go on some sour note. You'll regret it. Try your best with everything but don't push too hard. Be supportive of them 'til the end.
As far as how to handle how they'll feel, you really can't. Try to be nice, but that's the best you can do. Try not to leave a wound.
3 Name: Poppuri : 2021-01-10 22:27 ID:n9fGTl3B [Del]
hey i don't know if you're still gonna be reading replies to this but i want to say that it takes two to be in a relationship. what i mean is that the two of you should at least attempt to fix the relationship if you guys still want to stay with each other, especially since your gf brought up the distance between yall before. make sure that the two of you won't regret the decision you guys make, whether it be breaking up & moving on or staying in the relationship where you guys can possibly mend. it'll be hard for both of you as i can tell that you two have loved each other at one point but that's how life is, to go through a thing & learn how to move on from it.
sorry if this doesn't help much but i wish you two happiness no matter what choice you guys make.
