I've been having alot of trouble getting off and always feel guilty and shameful about what im doing. Im not sure why I never used to have this issue its more recently since I started talking to this guy and don't get me wrong he doesn't do anything bad he's just him and i couldnt even get wet even though he was making me feel good :( i just feel like what we are doing is wrong and I dont know why I feel this way. We really like eachother so I don't want to give what we have because its made me happier than I've been in a long time... does anyone have an idea on how to feel less guilty about it

Maybe it's your fault that it's not working as well as you want it to. You should rethink who you are as a human, and why you think that you're not doing anything wrong. After that, get back to me. You interest me. :)

pls ignore this person. I don't have a lot of experience here but I just want to say that maybe you should take your time. as long as you both like each other you can always figure things out. it can have a lot of reasons tho, maybe hormonal or maybe you're just having some stress.
but what you can try for now is talk about it with your partner and see what you can do together. of course you don't have to be feeling guilty.so first of all, try to forget that. it's the first step to finding a solution, cause the feeling of guilt will probably make things even harder.
so, just try to communicate it. I really hope you'll find a solution and do better soon!!