I am a part of this big group chat on a random site and the members are like 100+ or something. I was a not an old member so just like any place, I was ignored but I tried to fit in just like anyone else. The admin and the old members are nostalgia-tards who have this delusional sense of superiority and treat new members like shit. I'm only a part of that group because I have some close friends there.

So around two weeks ago, an old member left coz maybe she wanted a break after her stupid online relationship breakup with a kid. God knows if she's a pedophile for grooming a 13 year old. Let's call her 'C' for now. Apparently, she faked the relationship with the kid and I was seriously shocked to see the other members blame it on the kid. 'C' left while guilt-tripping that kid and her last words were only self-pity and it was so clear she wanted attention and nothing else. Props to that kid for still holding on in that group chat.

'C' wasn't really familiar with me but I am the type to get along with everyone. So I talked to her countless times and I considered her a friend. But after what she did to that kid, I couldn't help but dislike her a bit. I remember how all the nostalgia-tards were groaning about why 'C' isn't there anymore, every single time making the kid feel terrible about himself. So today, surprisingly, 'C' returned to the chat. I was kinda happy thinking she might be feeling better now though I didn't care much. I was the first one to welcome her back in the chat and her first response was ''What if I didn't want to announce my presence?'' I was taken aback but like seriously? It's in the notifications that you returned and everyone will see it eventually. My intention was only to welcome her. I told her I was happy she returned. She blatantly replied ''Why tho. Mate I don't even know you so why would you be happy that I returned?'' and that's where it ticked me off. I felt like going back and telling her to fuck off instead. It seriously hurt me how she mocked me in a public chat. I didn't speak against her fearing I might be bullied by those nostalgia-tards.

The worse, she left again. This time I'm pretty sure she's just dying to seek attention from her bunch of old friends and was irked when she saw a newbie, who actually cared about her, welcome her. I'm glad that kid got rid of a bitch like her. I'm just hurt how friends can turn out to be so horrible bitches. She might use her attention against me so that I am attacked by those nostalgia-tards. I can't leave the chat coz I've got a few friends there I treasure.

I seriously wonder what will happen tomorrow and how those nostalgia-tards would treat me, blaming me just like that kid. At least I'm glad the kid would be free then. I seriously wonder if sometimes I should be a bitch online but what's the point? Haters gonna hate. Bitches gonna bitch. Fuck them. Let 'C' continue this attitude until she has no friends left.

Too be honest with you, I had a similar situation in one of the group chats that I was in. And to be honest I didn't like that attention that this person was making but I was laughing too cuz I never liked her at all, actually I was one of the admin in that group ( we were 5 in total).

So me and the rest of the group decide that it be best to created another group without her in it. If you want, you can do the same thing cuz people like her don't deserved to me in your life (trust me I been there) you and that kid deserved to be happy not suffer over some stupid girl who wants attention (on less this girl is going through something in her personal life that she does not want to talk about). And if those friends that you have in that chat feel that same way has you, then again, you can do what I did and create a group chat that you guys can talk and not fear for others people talk shit.

And right now we are ina HUGE crisis, we don't need any negativite like that around your lives. We have to stay strong and positive (atleast we are trying to) not for just the people that we care dearly but for ourself too.

Hope I could help with your problem just a little bit and please, if I wrote something that you don't like, let me know cuz I love to learn from other people experiences.

STAY STRONG! STAY SAFE! AND PLEASE HAS MUCH OF YOU CAN..... STAY HOME! :)

You won't believe me but this is literally the best response I've ever got from someone online for my problem.I'm really grateful for the suggestion. I understand it's better to be away from toxic people than ruin my day. I wasn't forced to be there so I won't force myself to fit in either. If those nostalgia-tards love each other, let them be. They're just strangers anyway. So thank you very much for your help. ^^

I'm glad I could help you!! :D