so, im 13, gay, and wanto find a boyfriend. Is it to early to kiss, and to look? plz help

I don't think it's too early to kiss someone or to look for a boyfriend.

Just make sure it's someone around your age. We grow quickly during our teen years– the maturity gap between a 13 and 15-year-old is already pretty big. Any older than that and they'd probably be taking advantage of you.

Don't have sex unless you truly know you're ready, you're comfortable with the other person, and you're knowledgable enough to not get hurt. Things don't have to go fast if you don't want them to.

Also, try not to take relationships too seriously when you're young, because most of the time they're not serious in the long run. Don't let it become the center of your life. You'd be better off keeping your priorities as friends, family if they're good to you, and school. Others might disagree on that, but it's just my opinion.

That's about all the advice I have. Idrk know if you were looking for something else with that "please help" though lol, feel free to ask more questions if you're still unsure.

Me agrees... if you can tell you are gay, surely you can kiss someone.

I am in my twenties. I remember that even though boys and males always were more interesting for me than girls and woman, I somehow did not realize I was gay until I was 16 or so. Maybe I did not want to realize it, because the folks I was around with back then always used the word "gay" to ridicule others.

Anyway, take your time. Just from the numbers, we gays have a harder time finding boyfriends we are really comfortable with. It's really about your personality. For example, I'm quite far on the "romantic" side of things, so I need to talk a lot about stuff and I couldn't feel comfortable with someone who wouldn't listen to what I have to say and have something meaningful to answer. I had my first relationship with 21.

"Pretty late", some would say. But who cares? *YOU* are the one who has to feel good with it.

Do you have some LGBTQ group at your place or maybe a CSD? Those are often good places to feel more "at home". Just feel ready to say "no" at a CSD, because from my experience, you will be asked. ;)

If you do find someone you are interested in, I recommend being good friends with them for a while first. Overtime you'll be able to get to know them better and discover their true nature without getting to deep into a relationship with them.
And I don't mean to say this to be rude, but from experience, I've learned it's better to wait until you're a bit older for a relationship because people at your age are still growing and maturing. I never understood how complex relationships were until I got into one myself at 17 years old. Relationships are a lot of work and they take maturity and compromise to last (from both parties).
Many young teenagers make the mistake of jumping right in to relationships only to end up used and hurt.

To summarize, I would wait a few more years for a relationship. If you don't care about having a relationship that lasts, Jump right in. However, I'm not saying you're doomed for failure. This is just how most relationships I've seen end up at your age.

Best of luck to you!