I have screwed up a few times in my life. 7 months ago, I kissed my close friends girlfriend who said they had feelings for me. The next day she broke up with him, it was our plan for her to break up immediately so there wasn't any "cheating" behind his back (Like we hadn't already with the kiss). Well he flips out, reasonably so, and my friends begin to wonder whats happening, so I tell the truth. I till my friend (the one whose girlfriend I kissed, we'll call him Bill). I told the rest of my friends as well to come clean in a sort of sense. Well everyone gets mad at her and I ( we'll call the girl Velvet). Velvet and I become secluded none of our friends talked to us for months. Until Bill comes in, and asks to get Velvet back, and out of guilt or remorse or whatever. They try to get together (and I become secluded for a while until Velvet contacts me again, and she wants to try and have Bill, Myself, and her to be friends again). Their relationship isn't working out, and she just tries to be friends with him, to which he kept constantly trying to argue and force her back into a relationship, going so far as to follow her into her house when we were all hanging out, and force a kiss on her.Well a little backstory for this next bit. Bill, actually cheated on her...twice. And then while trying to get back with Velvet, assuring her the whole time he wasn't dating anyone else, was secretly dating a coworker. When I first asked Velvet about the cheating, (I had Bill promise me that he would tell her about his cheating), she replied with an unexpectedly calm 'yeah, he told me" well after the incident (the kiss), I told her about the cheating, and brought up how surprisingly cool she was about it. He LIED to her, and told her that "it was a misunderstanding" or "she came on to me". There were two instances of cheating, but also two instances of unwanted groping by him on these two girls. I won't go into too much detail about them here, because this is more of a rant than the story I wanted to initially type about. I told her the truth, and she didn't believe me for awhile, on the one hand, I haven't done anything to say that I am untrustworthy, on the other Bill was her only friend for 5 years. At any rate, a few months later Our mutual friend Silencio, confirmed everything I said about Bill, well this caused Velvet to cut off contact with Bill finally. before this though, when we were all trying to be friends Bill constantly guilt-ed Velvet and I, into doing whatever he wanted, and then would constantly berate us, until we had enough. But now Velvet tries to contact him once a month in order to try and get the $500 that Bill owes him, and we're pretty sure he'll never pay, and it just really really frustrates me, and I wanted to vent about it. Sorry for the long post, I will answer any questions, this ended up being really really ranty and again, I apologize

Wow that Bill guy seems really toxic... I hope everything works out tho & you can fix up any broken relationships because of this (:

>>1 I read your post using a Google translator because I don't understand English very well. I want to say one thing: there is no good or bad person in your story. Everything that happened between you had to happen. You and all your friends-you will live and stumble over your own feet, but the road will not end there. In any case, you should find the shape of your soul. Maybe not. You can put your soul in a box and it becomes a cube. You can free your soul and it will become the whole world. You can choose whether you want to be a box or the whole world. Good luck to you.

Woah, baytasxo, you really have a way with words! I love that that you said about souls, it took me by surprise and made me really happy for a moment. Thanks for that! :)

Anon, it's okay to vent! Although, I think positive thinking helps, too. If you get in the habit of venting it can make you feel unhappier... Just be careful, yeah? :)

Have a good one, all of y'all!