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Weird question (4)

1 Name: Karma : 2019-10-24 11:45 ID:ikYqgHTb [Del]

I’m currently in a great relationship. We are very in love. But there is one problem, I don’t feel the “good” feeling when we have sex. I’ve been faking it to make him feel better. I do feel good when I do it myself though(masterbation with clit)

Is this normal?

2 Name: Meph : 2019-10-24 16:49 ID:rBJVNLwe [Del]

Probably not, you might wanna talk with him and figure out what he is doing "wrong"... or in other words what he can do to make it more pleasant for you aswell. A relationship is supposed to rely on communication after all and I suspect he wants to make you happy aswell.

So if you are faking it, even though it is to make him feel better, you are basically lying to him. Let him know so he can make you happy. He will be thankful.

Now on a side note. I have never been in a relationship and I am a virgin myself. I don't know your partner. I have been describing what I would want my girlfriend to do if I had one.

3 Name: EpicKeith !K31THxH0Es : 2019-10-25 10:47 ID:6PLXU3xz [Del]

Stop faking it, first of all. That helps neither of you.
Satisfying sex requires good communication. You have to let him know your limits, what feels good and what doesn't, when to stop, etc... and he has to do the same. If you both can't communicate what you want during sex, you just shouldn't be having sex.
>>2 is absolutely right. I agree completely with that. Basically, communicate! The most important part of a relationship is also essential during sex! You've pretty much got the same answer from a virgin and from someone with experience, so that says a lot.

4 Name: Karma : 2019-10-25 16:35 ID:xfvQ/tmG [Del]

>>2 >>3
I have told him what makes me uncomfortable and what is weird but I never told him if I actually feel good. It’s kinda hard, it’s kinda breaking a man’s confidence in someways. Although I can see him very satisfied