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Advice on this please. (4)

1 Name: dandelion : 2019-07-05 17:27 ID:jfqoYwGG [Del]

So I recently had sex with my boyfriend. Well anyways.. The condom was halfish off when he pulled out (Yes he did come) , As it was a pre-lubed one and It may have been put on wrong, which is why it may have slipped off. I have just been worrying myself about if I'm pregnant or not. Im almost positive im not but my anxiety is making me doubt myself over and over and im scared really. It has only been about 1 week since it happened but i already feel sick everyday. Is this because im worrying so much about this or something else... Im not that old, And I don't have access to a preg test. So any advice. Or insight from some whos had a baby would be great. Im pretty sure im just worrying waaaay to much about the whole thing and that's why I feel sick. Please help me! Im a easily worried person and I don't have anyone else to talk to!

2 Name: anonym : 2019-07-05 18:12 ID:lxP9Svrp [Del]

hey I don't have any experience on this topic haha. but maybe you can check up on when you had your period? if I remember correctly two weeks after your last menstruation is when you're most likely to get pregnant. so my advice would be to check on that (and also better Google it) and maybe you'll find some other stuff while researching that. I hope you'll be fine and that helped a little just so you had someone to talk to :))

3 Name: Facts : 2019-07-05 19:05 ID:+2oQEPV/ [Del]

Did you use birth control before having sex? A condom alone can’t prevented getting pregnant, I don’t really know what to tell you but you should have put thought into it before you had sex. Not to be negative but I know what it’s like to be in the heat of the moment but are you ready to take care of a child if you really are pregnant? Is your boyfriend going to stick around if you are pregnant? Will your parents be supportive? How will you pay for this child?

4 Name: Anonymous : 2019-07-06 15:53 ID:iuXJJk+7 [Del]

morning sickness usually starts around 6 weeks into the pregnancy, so your feeling sick must just be due to anxiousness, a placebo effect, or something else. as for what >>2 said– Idk if that's true, but I've also heard that 2 weeks after a missed period may be a sign that you're pregnant (assuming your periods are regular to begin with).

I don't know how to ease your mind because there's really no way of knowing until enough time has passed. I'll say this, though– sometimes it's harder than people think to get pregnant. I know couples that have tried for 4 years to have a child before it happened.

wait until you've missed a period (3 weeks after sex if your periods are irregular), then get your hands on a pregnancy test. if you can't afford one or access one for other reasons, look for a Planned Parenthood in your area– they provide free pregnancy tests. if there isn't one nearby, try other local health centers. (just be careful though, Planned Parenthood has reported that there are "crisis pregnancy centers" out there that are scams. https://plannedparenthood.tumblr.com/post/66243936604/how-can-i-tell-crisis-pregnancy-centers-and-real)

>>3 grilling OP with all those questions is so unecessary. she's already anxious about it, probably because she already knows the consequences of a pregnancy.