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1 Name: SlothyGambler : 2019-07-04 03:15 ID:KUa0obuq (Image: 1242x1235 jpg, 420 kb) [Del]

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Hello there, long time no see.
First of all, WTF with all these suicide shits? People need some serious help in this section. It's kinda devastating to this community because Dollars shoul be helping each other, not askin how to die without pain.
Second, how y'all doing? I'm kinda fine. Just 2 weeks ago or something like that my grandma died and my mom had another psychiatric crisis (It has been repeating since 2013) and 2 days ago I made sure I told an old "friend" of mine that she shouldn't keep talking behind the others like she did with me, because then she'll be alone and will probably end like all these other ladies and gentlemen who ask how to die, *smh*.
Anyways, I'm struggling a bit with the second year of kanji (ninense) because of my bad memory; but happy (a lot) because I've got to make a perfect Doyle 180° in parkour, and I began learning the reverse vault.
Now you: how are you doing fellow Dollar?
P.S. Get some help with all this suicide shit. Life is beautiful, but you just can't see the good things because you are watching the bad things! The problem is you; the one who won't change because "I don't want to".

2 Name: Facts : 2019-07-05 19:13 ID:+2oQEPV/ [Del]

I get where you are coming from but that doesn’t mean you have to go off on them, yes some people are stupid and don’t realize what they are doing hurts those around them, I get it but telling them “they are the problem because they don’t want to change” is why half of them want to die. It’s because of people like you that push them over the edge. They have no where else to go and talk about their problems because they are afraid that people will hurt them even more. So why don’t you just walk away and go sh*t post somewhere else instead of bullying people.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2019-07-06 15:33 ID:iuXJJk+7 [Del]

OP, maybe you have good intentions with your message, but your attitude towards suicidal people is so condescending. everyone struggles differently, and it's not your place to tell any of them that they are the problem. there are so many factors that could ontribute to someone wanting to die, including both external and internal (psychiatric or chemical) issues. kicking them while they're down will not help most people. it'll just make them feel more alone and afraid to reach out to people who will ACTUALLY encourage/help them to recover.

suicidal Dollars are not "devastating" to the community. they reached out; other Dollars took their hand and offered them kind words and genuine advice. it's rather hypocritical of you to say that "Dollars should be helping each other" when you're attacking the people asking for and receiving help.

I hope that old friend of yours didn't believe you when you told her she'd be alone with her suicidal thoughts. you should really rethink what you written here.

still, I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope your mother's condition improves.

/sage

4 Name: EpicKeith !K31THxH0Es : 2019-07-06 15:46 ID:n3EOYBaF [Del]

>>2
God, you are so ignorant, it's unbelievable.
I was suicidal a few years back, and yes, I WAS completely the problem. And it wasn't until I got off my ass and started changing how I lived and stopped making excuses that I got better. Letting people sit in their bubble of pity isn't gonna help at all. They need to change if they are to get better They need to reach out and get actual, professional help. Also, that is NOT why half of them want to die. They want to die because they're stuck in a situation where they can't find a way out and see death as a better option than living through it.
Getting help online is SUPER dangerous because surprise, surprise, a majority of us aren't experts and aren't trained to deal with suicidal episodes. We'll often make it worse. I had a friend that I desperately tried to help, but he still ended up killing himself and I ended up blaming myself for it. So not only did he not get the help he needed, but I was damaged from the experience. Getting help online hurts far too many people.
Also, bullying? Stop being so sensitive. Look up what bullying means. OP never degraded suicidal people, just requested they go get help. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You're more of an asshole here blaming OP for pushing people to suicide over... concern for others? Jesus Christ. If anything, THAT could be something that could drive someone to suicide - blaming someone for others' deaths. But you don't care because you're up on your high horse.

Anyways, if you're suicidal and reading this, I understand how you feel. I was there too. There's something in your life that needs to change. Please seek out help. People do care. It's not easy, but you can do this. You may be the problem, but you are also the solution, as soon as you decide to change.

5 Name: SlothyGambler : 2019-07-27 12:59 ID:JVMKuUdC [Del]

First things first, EpicKeith was the only one who got my message.
Second, what's your problem Facts? Now giving an opinion makes you a bully? As a member of the Dollars I hate seeing lots of people trying (abusing this page) with suicide threads, but I hate more the fact that these people think that they are alone.
How could your name be "Facts" when you negate every fact that my post said (most of those thing are said by psychologists).
I had a hard time to in my life that keeps coming to me constantly and that made me someone who lost lots pf thing, including feelings. Probably, this shit and the fact that English isn't my mother language makes you think I'm a "bully" but I recommend you to read twice and even think more than 3 times.