So I’ve been in a relationship for a year and a few months. I really love him but lots of times he gets upset at me and his family. He is easily offended and irritable. He also says hurtful things to me sometimes. When I try to talk to him about something I think is important but he doesn’t like, he’ll refuse to talk about it or ignore me. I feel like I don’t get taken seriously and I’m taken for granted. He wants me to do things for him all the time that he should be doing himself, and when I refuse he gets irritated. When I ask him not to do something that I think is wrong or dangerous he’ll just go do it anyways. I feel like I’m constantly disrespected and am not thought about. He is hardly chivalrous and wants me to do everything for him all the time.
Sorry about this rant, if you have any advice I would appreciate it.

Thanks

Hmm, he seems really toxic if he refuses to talk about it and makes you do stuff for him that he can easily do himself. Have you tried telling him that if he doesn't want to talk about how he's treating you, you won't be able to continue this relationship? Like tell him something like "If you don't want to talk aboht this then I won't be able to continue this relationship" or something along those lines. If he does try to talk about it but still continues to act like that or if he acts immaturely about you telling him to talk about it, then it's probably good for you to end the relationship. It'll hurt a lot to end it but soon you'll get over it.