I live in Japan, and I have this very dear friend of mine. She has been through so much that sometimes I just don't know how should I help her. She has three siblings and one nonbiological sister. She is the oldest of her siblings, and she has a brother with an intellectual disability. She and her little brother were domestically abused by their father when they were young. Their mother and them ran away from their father and now their mother remarried with another man (his daughter is my friend's nonbiological sister). Her new father treats my friend and her siblings like shit, but his daughter is very spoiled. Because my friend couldn't grow up with a father, she feels angry and envious about all of her siblings that could.
She is Christian and goes to the church, just like her parents. She had a romantic relationship with a married man (she is 14). It was with consent, and she actually felt like she liked him. They broke up after some months of dating. They didn't do anything sexual, but she told me they kissed once. She talked about that with her other friend, and her friend exposed her to her family, friends etc... She felt, and still feels very guilty about all of it. Her family completely lost their trust on her, and she feels like she is a burden to them. Her mom came up with the idea of her moving back to her biological father's house. It seems like her father feels sorry and wants to apologize to her. She told me she does want to move to her father's house, but not because she is tired of her current family. She told me her mother won't give her up, but just because of her Christianity and Jesus' Judgement...unless my friend makes the decision to move to her father's house. And that's why she wants to move, because she wants her mother to just give up on her. She just feels like she's done too many bad things to her family. All of this is so confusing not only to me but to my friend especially. I want to help her so much, but I just don't know how, and I feel bad for that. I feel bad for having to make this thread, too. But I know it's necessary. Anyone who feels like helping, just please give me an advice or anything really. You have no idea how much it will help me and her, and just everything.

Thank you, and sorry for the long post.

I have some doubts about the genuinity of this story but I would advise her to stay with her mother and try atone for what she did. I do not think that her mother does not love her anymore,that is what she sees from her perspective. People like her father have the tendency to relapse into their old behavior so I would not go back to him. That is just my opinion.

I see... thank you for the opinion! It really helps (:

I hope it does. This is my email perpules.dollars@gmail.com if you want to discuss more about it. I know how it feels

For sure, it did! By the way, I told my friend about your reply (sorry, if you didn't want me to) and she said she found it very nice of you to reply, even when you couldn't totally believe her story (which is totally cool, and understandable). She was very happy about it. You made her day :D Thanks, again!