I have been dating this guy for at least 3 weeks and we had watch movies a lot at each others house. He calls me from time to time when he's driving around and he joked about driving by my house a lot. I laughed and said it'd be funny if he came by.

Honestly, I'm scared of my dad and I would have had to ask him if I could walk around with him for a while. He always has something bad to say about me or my family.

One time during a date he called me screaming and curse about traffic and how he has to drive my sister around after he gets home with food that we had ordered from a Chinese place. He was screaming so loud that my boyfriend heard it.

Even before he got in the car he asked for orders for Chinese food. I wrote them down on a small white board in small print cursive. He couldn't read it and when I offered to read my hand-writing he blew up in my face.

If I can't ask him to read my hand-writing, how can I ask him if I can go on a walk with a boy.

Anyways, we went for a walk and we were out a bit too long and then my dad tried to find me, saw my boyfriends car, and he's broken us up and we aren't allowed to see each other anymore. Both of my parents think we had sex (we didn't and I can't stress that enough)

TL;DR, I went on a walk with my boyfriend without telling anyone he was with me, my parents found out and think we had sex, and now we aren't allowed to see each other.

I completely messed up. I just needed to vent, maybe hear someone's opinion. I want to save our relationship, but I don't think we can and I don't want it to end.

Not sure how old you are but if you are over 18 years old. Id suggest to try reasoning with him. If that doesnt work. Then try excluding him from your social life. Parents have limits in controlling their kids life to protect them but sometimes that limit does not exist nor do they care but to control you until you stand up for your right. If he is being unreasonable and you havent done anything. Tell him so and walk away or ignore. I would walk out the house and come back when i think its safe to go back. When the drama is over. If they want to start again. Walk straight to your room and enjoy your solitude. Some times parents control their kids too much when they are old enough to make decisions to learn. That is a fault as parenting (in my opinion). Sometimes we kids or teens must make mistakes to learn. Have freedom to explore whats right for us.

I wish you luck and i hope you have good days.

I've been avoiding my dad since the incident and he finally brought it up. I was so scared. He always over reacts and I figured I have my entire life taken away. (15 btw)
I practically got away scot-free believe it or not. I just have to do laundry for 2 weeks straight. It also came out that I'm my dad's favorite child of 3 and I'm his best friend. My dad has no friends and I'm serious about that.

I also found out my dad isn't mad I ran off with a boy. He's mad I lied about it. Which I completely understand, but I don't think my punishment matches the crime. Laundry? I've been grounded and confined to my room for leaving poptart wrappers in the living room.

Lying never does any good. When the truth comes out, you can expect trouble coming your way. Try being straightforward with issues you shouldnt lie about.

For your punishment. Im not sure if itd suitable but maybe theres more that youve done and havent realize or maybe not. Maybe he gave you a lousy Punishment to let you off the hook easily, so you wont think twice about doing whatever you want is okay. I think you will be fine and your problems will unravel steady.