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Family and animals (4)

1 Name: Pluto : 2019-04-27 12:20 ID:I5DrEcN4 [Del]

I am terribly devestated right now. I am angry at myself, my dad and my grandparents. The thing is my grandparents sold my dog, who is more like a part of the family than a dog to me. I was happy to see him when I returned home from school each weekend. But now I don't really have a reason to be happy. I feel so empty inside and what's the worst they didn't even say sorry or anything like that to me. They even said I shouldn't complain it barked a lot anyway. I am soo angry at them and I am asking you right now what is the right soultion to my problem. No I don't want another dog! I want to know how to forgive them beacause it is hard and this is not the first time something like this happened, my mother left because of my grandparents and I know how she felt now.

2 Name: Thorns : 2019-04-27 13:25 ID:Hbvi7YLr [Del]

First, cool off. Shut yourself in your room, ignore their existence, take a walk, do whatever and take as much time as you need to (so long as you're not harming yourself or others).

Then, talk to them. Make a list of questions, write a script, find the truth and reason behind their decision.

And if in the end you conclude that they themselves (as a person) are absolutely terrible, then you do have the option of cutting them off (which is extreme and difficult to do since they are family).

Note: The deed may be terrible but if you are able to understand their reasoning then forgiving them would be

3 Name: Elixime : 2019-05-06 15:20 ID:KPY+mhDX [Del]

Is it possible to get back the dog? I'm mean, if you explain the situation to the new owner, he will at least let you see your dog, if he's not a jerk...
I find that your dad and grandparents are terrible people, a dog isn't just an object you can sell like that...

4 Name: Aestas : 2019-05-13 14:14 ID:8okmoM4E [Del]

My best friend had a similar expirience. Her grandparents put her second guniea pig to sleep. The first one died of cancer so it was extra hard for her. She ignores them, but I wouldn't ignore them forever. I'd ignore them for like 2 months and then do the things Thorns said. The longer you wait, the worse it is for your grandpa and dad. Trust me. (sorry if there are any gramatical errors)