1 Name: Anonymous : 2019-04-19 21:43 ID:zo0YvtNK [Del]
So im 18, you'd think id fallen in love or been attracted to someone by now, well i havent. Everyone else around me talks about having crushes or wanting to date/have sex and i dont get it. Am i broken? Ive never had these desires, am i just a weird freak clwho cant feel emotion???
2 Name: Thorns : 2019-04-20 08:55 ID:asPdsNcC [Del]
Of course not, I for one have never had a crush or an interest in love whats so ever. You could be A sexual where you lack sexual attraction or you could simply be not interested. Both cases are normal and if its the latter then you may develop such thoughts once you find the right person.
3 Name: Forlorn : 2019-04-24 17:23 ID:IzbJveuQ [Del]
your not. your fine. You just got other focuses. Some will never feel a need for it. Others will long for it. Depends and people go at their own speed.though people nowaday seem fast on it.
4 Name: Lyrid : 2019-04-25 23:03 ID:3t8yJd1X [Del]
What you're feeling (or rather, not feeling) is incredibly commonplace. You're not abnormal, and it has nothing to do with your capability for emotion. Don't feel pressured to label yourself with anything. It's a perfectly normal state of being.
5 Name: りん~ : 2019-04-27 01:53 ID:E7/wfHsL [Del]
Like those other people above said, you're just fine.
You see, one of the reasons most of that age bracket gets hurt/broken hearted/strayed from path is because they thought that if other people fall inlove/have sex and stuff/ and are into some relationship,they feel that they should too, which tends them to go and force themselves "to be inlove" This situation ends up begging them to ask later on with regrets "why did i do that? Is that love?".
You're okay. You're normal. You're not broken. It's human nature to fall inlove at their own pace. One day you'll find your love interest too
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6 Name: Pluto : 2019-04-27 12:10 ID:I5DrEcN4 [Del]
I can relate with you, my friends only talk about those things nowdays and I think that it is too early for me so I find those conversations awkward as hell.
7 Name: Zera : 2019-05-02 07:37 ID:iiE9j9XY [Del]
Really it just means that you haven't found "the one". I'm like that too, and so is my friend. My friend just decided he'll never date, but I still try. There's no such thing as being "broken". You're just different like me and my friend. Personally, I have trouble feeling emotion in general. But at least trying to date has helped me grow emotionally and I've noticed a difference. I don't know if it works for all people, but that's just my advice. Just remember there's no such thing as being "broken". And if it doesn't work out, who cares? You don't need to do things other people are doing around you to fit in or anything. Just do you :)
