I've fought with my boyfriend and it is bad to the point w are not talking. I even apologized for the wrong things I've done and said. Then he leaves without a word, we live together it's the thing, but I thought when he left even though he didn't say goodbye was to go to work to then find someone in the bedroom hours later and I automatically checked if his car was here because it scared me. You never know if it was a stranger. Confirmed it was him he ignored me so in return I walked away. Feel like we are being childish, but I am hurt and I know he is too but the way he is acting it's too much for me. Then I had to go somewhere with my sibling so when I came back he was gone, again without a word.. I've gotten so mad but I didn't call him or text him he was ignoring me so a reply I will not get. I checked his Facebook (ik kinda dumb I dont ever really get on) just to make sure where he is at and safe. But I can't bring myself to talk to him. And I even debate about ending this. I know I'm just venting but now being in the same bed and not looking at each other or saying a word to each other is painful..

Hello, i'm sorry about your situation with your boyfriend. You have already apologized and done your part, if he cant do his and own up to his side (about leaving without saying a word) then its not your fault. I know its going to be hard to talk to him but I think you should talk to him about your communication if you choose to stay with him that he shouldn't just randomly leave like that and not be able to speak to you maturely. it is okay for him to be hurt but you still have to think of your actions while you're hurt if you love someone. if you decide to end things make sure you tell him in person clearly why you are ending things so he understands it. maybe you can stay with family if you end things. if you stay, make sure to tell him you're not going to put up with this kind of behavior because nobody should have to live like that. I cant imagine being in the same bed with someone that wont even look at me. you both deserve to be happy, obviously do what you want but this doesn't sound like a healthy argument. arguments are healthy for a relationship but they require communication, hope you get it sorted out and are happy again soon

Thank you LunaXIII. I will talk to him. I was immature too by not staying calm. It can be hard to talk to him but I really want to work this out.. I love him, but if things can't be fixed I will end it. I told myself from my last relationship that I shouldn't go low just to keep a man by my side. We been together for almost 3 years and he is a really good good guy treated me better than I deserve, but the arguments now a days are unhealthy. It's hard to communicate with him because he just keeps it bottled up, but if he can't even talk to me someone who is supposed to be his partner and someone to lean on when times are tough it just makes me feel like I'm not his partner then. I do hope he decides to finally talk, though. I dont want us to end. Like I said, I love him.
Thank you.