I am having a hard time right now. I want to love someone but don't know how because the person I like loves some one else. also I don't know what to do with life now. I have not been happy or felt joy for months now. can some one tell me what I should do or things that can help.

Don't think about that person whom you like. Forget about him/ her, it's gonna be hard, but that's the first thing you need to do before you can start feeling happy for yourself. Then you should start loving yourself- do the things that you enjoy, eat good food, go shopping, find new hobbies and friends, treat yourself. I'm guessing you're not older than 25 but even if you are, this advice should still help you.

When we learn how to love ourselves first will we be able to love others and find their worth in them just as you've found yours.