So, I know this is sort of stupid, but I need some help. Recently, I think I made my girlfriend feel bad by venting out some of my insecurities about our relationship to her. She seemed fine until a bit later today, when she said that she was still feeling bad about what I had said. I realize now that I wasn't really thinking when I said what I did, but I don't really know what to say to her. She has some issues with self-esteem, and she has her bad days, but this is the first time that I've ever felt responsible for her feeling bad.

So...Could I have some help? Any advice would be appreciated.

well ive never been in a realtionship but try talking things out with her but make sure that you dont anger her by asking whats up and just see if theres anything bothering her. sorry if this wasnt much help but i hope things work out for you two

>>2 I agree with the subject of talking it out. It's fairly obvious that anyone in a relationship hears that piece of advice. But take it to heart and be yourself. Knowing she has self-esteem issues is the first step in helping your relationship. I can't say much on the situation because of how little I know, but I hope you work it out. Have a good day at it.

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A couple days after I made this thread, I took her on a date and we talked about what was bothering us. I think that helped, and I feel like we've gotten closer because of this exchange.

Anyways, I'd like to thank you for the advice. Have a nice day/evening!