Hey guys! So I need advice, Growing up I didnt really thought of a reason to live, but i watched alot of rom com and i believed that the reason we live is to find someone we love and never let them go. I was in a relationship for 4 years but soon she left me for someone else, i know i did my absolute best to keep the relationship going, but in the end she left. I gave my all I gave my life and time away for her. She graduated College like i promise her. But while she was going to school i focused so much on her and i lost everything about my self. Now that im our of a long term relationship it had me thinking alot. For the next girl will that relationship just end too. I guess what im trying to say is im scared of creating new relationships because whats the point if its eventuality going to end. Any life advice would help!

Hey man I know how you feel, it's hard having another relationship let alone think about having another one when the one you had put in so much effort into just disappear like that... I don't know the details and I won't pry. Maybe it's for the best. Maybe you deserved better.

What I'm trying to say is Life is too short to be caught up dwelling about the past. Look ahead, force yourself forward no matter how hard it feels. There will be greener pastures ahead I can guarantee you. Life's all about Change. We adapt to change and make the best out of our situation. No doubt this incident will leave you heartbroken and scarred, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Push forward. Best of luck.