Hey everyone! Scurvy here, I have not posted, nor visited the dollars website in a few years, which is a shame, as I used to spend a lot of time chatting to others on here. I'm writing this for advice and as a general venting mechanism, so here's the story;

I have had a girlfriend for the past 3 years, we went through the last year of high school together and just finished our first year of university, she studies creative arts, and I study business. Everything is usually fine, with the occasional argument here and there but recently the arguments have been getting worse (as a note, I know I'm not perfect in this situation, this is just my point of view), she will snap at me seemingly every chance she gets, and has on a few occasions stated that she doesn't want to be with me anymore, but changes her mind after and acts as if nothing happens.

I don't know what to do, because it really does feel like we are falling out of love, I feel like I should talk to her about it, and maybe end things, but I can't bring myself to do it, in that sense I am a pushover (a trait directly traceable to my father). So yeah, I don't know, there is more to the story but this is the gist of it, if anyone has any input feel free to leave it here.

Thank you for your time fellow Dollars,

~Scurvy

Hello hello.

Welcome back!

First let me just say that I've no experience with love whatsoever but human communication is something that I think is extremely crucial especially in these times. If you've been together this long then I suggest it's time to have a serious conversation about where you both stand and the issues that seem to be resurfacing more than often. A major hindrance in life stems from a lack of saying what needs to be said because we're scared of the outcome. The world moves. Be brave and address the things you know need to be addressed. Communication for sake of keeping someone that's important to you or letting go of something that strains you both. Be strong.

dude don't be someone who sacrifices their happiness of others. yes you guys have rocky relationships, but that doesn't mean you need to ignore it.

bite at the problem before it becomes bigger.
it t takes 2 to continue a relationship. if you want to break it off, talk to her first to get closure. so if you do break up, not much hard feelings.

in a relationship, it takes 2 to tango. maybe she isn't satisfied with the way of life. maybe she wants something new. but you literally won't know until you approach her .

so yes, talk to her and stop hiding from the truth. cuz it will find you when you're vulnerable if you keep ignoring it.

so man up and confront her boi. just a little closure won't kill you.