It's been a while since I've had a SO. At first it was because my fiancee died in an accident. It was quite the shock, tragic and numbing. However, lately I've come to the realization that it's more because of the fact that, next to her, I could only love my younger sister equally. The problem is, I'm adopted and don't know if I even HAVE a sister...
And so, I propose to you, Dollars. What is your opinion on siblings being romantically (though not specifically sexually) involved? Also, looking for a potential sister, I would have no choice but to come into contact with my birth parents, whom I have wanted to punch out for as long as I can remember. Would it even be worth it?
Family is very important to me; so, even if I find out I only have brothers, I would still want to have some sort of regular interaction with them.
>_<*!... I digress.
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Q1: Thoughts on sibling relationships?
Q2: If you were not brought up as siblings and are, in fact, complete strangers?
Q3: Wanting to beat the shit out of your birth parents, yea or nea? Why?
Q4: Reaching out despite having to meet hated birth parents in the process; yea or nea? Why?

1: I really wouldn't go for a sibling relationship. That's always going to bring up some potential weirdness. And if it's not really going to be sexual then you might as well just be friends.
2: I would still avoid that because people are going to talk and cause problems, and if it does get sexual then that's not going to be healthy for the kids.
3: Yea. I'd never physically do it, but my mom took advantage of some custody BS to use me to get my dad unfairly sent to prison and I had to pay his fines, so yeah.... Sometimes your parents are really just a-holes who need a good kick in the pants.
4: That's 100% up to you. Maybe they'll be able to explain things and make stuff better, but, most likely, it'll just get worse. But knowing that might confirm some opinions, so it's hard to say for sure.

1: In a romantic sibling relationship, there is always a power imbalance. This will mostly likely lead to an unhealthy relationship. So it's a big fat no to this one.
2: Being strangers to each other could potentially get rid of the power imbalance, but the odds of it being a healthy relationship is still rather low. And like >>2 said, if it does become sexual at some point, there's SO many problems that can arise out of that.
Incest is not taboo just because people think it's gross (although, that is still a reason, even if not a good one). It's a taboo thing because of how mentally/emotionally/physically unhealthy it can potentially be to all involved, with a greater chance at being toxic than non-incestuous relationships. Incest did use to be an acceptable thing, especially in royal families, until research showed how dangerous it could be.
3: The desire is not wrong, especially if your birth parents put you through some horrible stuff. Acting on it isn't that great though, so if being near them makes the urge too strong, I wouldn't recommend coming into contact with them.
4: Reaching out can be great. I personally have a little brother we had to put up for adoption because my parents could barely afford to care for the 4 kids they already had. I know that once he turns 18 (6 more years!), I want so badly to meet him. Maybe your (potential) siblings feel that way but don't know if you wanna meet them. However, if you feel like there will be strong conflict between you and your parents, it's probably better to first search online and see if they had any other children. And if any are adults, contact them instead of your birth parents.