>>1 An option to consider is to try and start a new life. You sound like you're broken inside, wounded. You need time to heal, because there's still things for you to live for. There's a lot of pressure to live, a lot of things expected of you, situations that you find yourself trapped in. You might just need a break, or need the freedom. I'm not saying to just up and leave on a whim, but maybe there's people out there who might be able to help you and give you that something that you are lacking. I don't know exactly your relationship with the other people around you but you seem like someone who could use a long hug, who just needs someone there that will always be there for you and be able to help you in any way that they can. But not just anyone, someone you truly trust and care about, that you wouldn't want to leave. Please don't give up yet. If there's anything you need help with let us know. Be it money, a place to stay, someone to be there for you, we might be able to help.
I feel kind of silly for saying this but I'm someone who's been alone my whole life. This isn't about me and my struggles seem like nothing compared to what I imagine you went through, but maybe what you're after is something that can only be provided from someone else with a complicated life, or someone who's truly alone. I'm only putting this out there as an option, it's hard for anyone to understand each other through the few words we get in these messages. I apologise if any of this affected you negatively or if it's hard to understand but I mean everything with good intentions. If there's anything I can do please let me know.