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Relationship Advice! (6)

1 Name: M2 : 2018-09-08 14:12 ID:Tv6dtBIK [Del]

Hi guys, Long Post ahead for context(appreciate if ya'll can read and give me some advice)

So there's this girl I like, we met a few months ago during a judo competition (we were on the same team, won a bronze medal, not that it mattered). After the competition she asked for my social media, i gave her fb because i'm taking a break from ig. We started chatting (on and off, I'll usually start by talking about judo related stuff, before diverting to other topics haha. I would say that we have a pretty good chemistry. We met once few weeks later after the competition, for grading. But because i had to leave early i didn't get to chat with her. We started chatting online again after grading. More personal questions this time round, like asking each other about our jobs and what we do over the weekends... I did give a few stupid answers I regretted giving, like how I mentioned I swipe right on tinder, and that i wear anime printed shirts at home because of the material's quality.

Moving on to yesterday I realized she's attending the same event I'll be attending, but both of us will be going with our friends. So we did in fact meet briefly but I saw a guy with her group, plus it was a pretty big group so I didn't really talk to her. After the event I messaged her (how was the event etc.) , she told me that was her friend's brother, she then asked me if I liked movies( because they went to watch a horror movie after that)...

I don't know what I should do guys, I'm not even sure if she's single or not...want to ask her out for a date but idk the best time and way to do it, please advise! Is she even interested in me?

Ps. I don't use ig but I know from a mutual friend she has like 500+ followers (kind of a pop kid?) I only have 200+ hahaha will she think I'm a loser or something?

2 Name: Archos Militarus : 2018-09-08 23:16 ID:okdhEqNw [Del]

Wouldn't hurt to ask her if she's single. Worst she could do is turn you down. If that happens, life goes on, trust me. I've been on the receiving end of a few not so fun rejections (though the cool thing is, the last time I said something, I didn't get rejected). If it happens, you get up, regroup, and start over...

3 Name: Anonymous : 2018-09-09 01:23 ID:qLjJfNEK [Del]

You will only regret not asking her out. Just go for it, if your turned down you can move on to different people.

4 Name: M2 : 2018-09-09 11:28 ID:MxlQhTm8 [Del]

Thanks so much guys for your comments, it went pretty smoothly, seems like both of us enjoyed our online conversation and want to meet up to chat. She asked me if I have a girlfriend I told her I have a crush (if it isn't already obvious, just playing it safe for now so I didn't tell her who it was, though I hope she got the gist)

I went ahead to ask her out for coffee and she agreed, should I include movie and dinner in the programme? At this point I've yet to confess my feelings...

coffee -> confess -> movie -> dinner? How does that sound?

5 Name: Anonymous : 2018-09-09 12:08 ID:qLjJfNEK [Del]

Sounds great

6 Name: Mirrored 617 : 2018-09-10 22:26 ID:J24QW1P4 [Del]

Fantastic.

Where you confess is timed pretty good. And even if she rejects you, you could still chill with her as friends at the movies and at dinner.